If you are a guy, and a gay guy asked you out, isn't this a compliment? A guy who has another guy ask them out should feel flattered, right? Guys...how would you feel if I asked you out?
2007-03-07 09:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd get nervous... feel flattered a bit... look you in the eye and tell you that I played for the other team and swim in a different lake. Those who react strongly, want to kick you A**, run away scared, are offended, etc., are 99% uncomfortable with sexuality issues. Need we be reminded that each of came from a male and female, and each of us carries the genetic code of gay behavior, even if it's 1% of who we are. Ever wonder why guys stare at each others' d**k in the showers???
2007-03-07 09:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Straight men (not as a whole but many of you) are so insecure and weak in character.
If a guy asks you out you feel threatened, your "manhood" gets crushed, you feel weak and like a freak, how ridiculous!
All you have to do is say sorry buddy I don't play in your park, ya know, I go for the other style the female style.
No big deal, you were not violated, you didn't loose your virginity, no hands laid on you, nothing so please just get real and try to toughen up a bit!
I think the "straight" guys that have to react with violence are probably very insecure and perhaps bordering on gayness themselves otherwise they would not react with the first mask of most emotions......Anger!
2007-03-07 19:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most straight guys would not find it a compliment when a gay man shows any interest in them including friendship.
Knowingly asking out a straight man is a death wish for gays.
2007-03-07 18:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! I would definetly be offended because these days at school you don't know if they are serious or not. If you have traits of being gay, you'll make a bad name for yourself and you'll be bothered for the rest of you time in school! What if you were 100% gay, and a women asked you out? Maybe you wouldn't feel offended, but you would most likely say No.
2007-03-07 18:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My answer is two fold...
(1) If you were to ask me that when I was younger I would have arranged it for you to be eating your meals through a straw for the rest of our life.
(2) I've since, grown up and matured. I would inform you that I don't swing from that funky tree and if you carried it beyond that point, then I would get extremely rude.
I do not approve of homosexuality - BUT - as long as you don't push it on me or on my family, I wont go out of my way to hurt, harass or bother you in any way.
2007-03-07 18:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems like a compliment to me. A lot of gay guys are really picky.
2007-03-07 17:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Syck 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I see this as a good way of getting your *** kicked if I were you I would ask someone who knows the person your about to hit on and I would do it where there were a lot of people around
2007-03-07 17:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think yes they would be offended, I can't speak for all men, but I can tell you if you did that to my husband you would be on the ground crying like a baby.
2007-03-07 17:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Urchin 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You would think that they would think it wouild be compliment however it really depends on the guy and how secure he is with himself..,
2007-03-07 17:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by mloinc 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You might not live to see another day. If some homosexual made a pass at me I would probably kill him. That sh#t isn't normal and most people find it very offensive.
2007-03-07 17:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by jason b 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋