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Question

Ok so I just found my dad and havent seen him for a long long time (I was a baby) so what should I ask him and what should i tell him?

It wasn't him who left my mother left and took me and my bro.

I dont want money I want a dad i want to ask the right questions to make a relationship im 17 i dunno what to say and ask

Answer 1

just play catch up....build a relationship with him just like you would a new friend....you have to learn about each other....its hard to say why he wasn't in your life but im sure it is hard for you to deal with...i met my dad for the first time when i was 12.....it was tough but now we have a great relationship

Answer 2

Tell him you have been doing fine without him and ask him why the he** he chooses now to come back in your life? If you really want to get rid of him, ask him for all the child support money that your mother was suppose to get way back then,........ when he wasn't anywhere to be found!!!! Ooh and that it's too late to raise someone who is already grown. When you needed a father you didn't have him and you sure don't need him now. Poof Pow BE GONE!!!!

Answer 3

Hi, well right on, I'm happy for you. As for what to ask your dad and what to say hey just take it one day at a time. You could ask him what he has been up to all the years and you could let him know how your doing as well, let him know about things you like and whats going on with you. It's kinda nerve racking after such along time and I know that you must be nervous but just be yourself he's your father and he loves you very much. Your relationship will grow with him just take your time.

I wish you all the luck in the world, take care.

Answer 4

You could ask him how his life has been and maybe after a little while about the circumstances of his leaving and why he did so. Try to get to know him as a person. And you could tell him about your own life and that you are happy that you have finally found him and how you feel about that. That sort of things.

Answer 5

Try to catch up on the years and ask him why he left and where he's been. Also, give him a hard time on how it's been hard to grow up without a dad.

Answer 6

U should ask "Hey! Where the F*CK have U been???"

U should tell him "I can't believe that u left... ur sooo gay!"

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This is my edit part of the question (me bein serious)

You should tell him how u feel about him being gone for so long. Once u get that out of ur system... ask normal Q's. Like, "so... did u see that movie?" or "So... what have u been up to?"

or "What do u do as a job?"

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

I would just be honest with him. Tell him what you honestly feel. It will make you feel a lot better about the situation. And it also lets him know what his not being around did to your life. I would tell him what you have done in life and your accomplishments. And ask him about his life.

Answer 8

you should ask him why he never came to see you , and you should definatly tell him how you feel , and ask him if he is going to stick around this time and be a father or if he will only think about him self good luck hope all goes well for you both.

Answer 9

i would tell him just what you told us and be honest and be yourself. He's your dad and he will love you anyway. Don't think too hard about what to say though. I don't know you but if you're a good person he will see that and if he can't than you don't need him anyway.

Answer 10

Where did you find him?
Were you looking for him or did he just pop up into your life?
Ask him where he has been, why he left, if he has any life lessons to teach you, if he has any regrets.
In short, draw out as much information about this man as you can.
He might just dissapear tomorrow.