I'm overweight at 18 lbs. so Im not as confident as I was before with my body and I get too shy
2007-03-07 09:12:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give him the buttsecks.
2007-03-07 09:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am the same as you. But I didn't buy the sexy lingerie. I mean, in my head, who was I kidding? So instead I buy the cutesy pajamas, capris with tanks, boy shorts and tanks, you know the kind you can find at target or the mall. It is a little different than the T-shirt for bedtime and if you get them in soft materials than you will feel soft too. And when I do that, his appreciation for the changes makes me feel good. I laugh and tell him that he makes me feel so sexy that I haven't even bothered to lose the extra pounds. I also have a perfume that I wore when I was at my slimmest and it reminds me of how sexy I used to feel back then. So I use it when I start to feel low on myself and the smell just reminds me of the confidence I used to have at that time, in short, I feel sexy when I remember. Good luck! You can email me if you want.
2007-03-07 17:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by ESTamez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well an idea would be to go to a hotel overnight.... but get there a while b4 ur hubby does and set up scented candles and make sure th hotel has a spa-bath fill it with bubbles and turn on som slowish romantic music - or mayb u 2 hav a fav song or somthin and dim th lights. tell ur hubby 2 meet u ther @ say 6.00pm and hav a table 4 2 set up with a nice (homemade) dinner. then have glasses and wine do som toasts etc. and then afta dinner go into th bathroom and strip down into a satin black (cos blacks slimming) nite dress that hugs ur boobs but flares out ova ur stomach so it excentuates the best of ya and wear black stockings or fish-nets wateva you're comfortable with and then dance wit him n take him in2 th bathroom and in2 th spa bath filled 2 th top wit bubbles>>so th bubbles cover the parts of u u dont lyk. this cud also be done @ home but being in a hotel creates a different special mood. hope this helps. oh and make sure th bath waters stil hot! but not TOOO hot! dont stress about th nite and remember 2 hav fun!!!
2007-03-10 01:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most attractive thing a woman has going for her is her confidence. A year ago I was 13 pound over weight. I made up for it by taking the time to do my makeup differently, keeping up with my manicures, getting facials, working out and buying new outfits. I did all of that for my self because it made me feel good about my self. When I feel good I feel good about my self I feel very confident.
My boyfriend hardly mentioned the extra pounds. He would always tell me that my confidence was very sexy. I just didn't let it bother me behind close doors and it never affected our sex life.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-07 17:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by luvdov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up! You can buy costumes and wear them while being intimate, You don't have to completly undress if you don;t feel confident about your body. There are sexy nurses costumes, police officer, naughty school teacher etc.. they are all short dresses.
Good luck
2007-03-07 17:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figgers or was it bra's and things. anyway one of those two underwear shops sell realy kinky underwear and toys, or you could always go for the g-string and corset look i find that very sexy. you might find some good stuff at a adult shop. but if you look good then you generally feel goo too.
2007-03-07 17:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some nice underwear that looks like good on ya, stockings n spenders make you look good and slimmer (hide your bad bits!) if your worried bout your stomach then a corset top would be great.use candles instead of turning lights on. have a drink maybe to settle yourself!!
2007-03-07 17:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try working out, it helps, i'm a little overweight, but I htink when I feel healthier and eat healthier, I feel alot more confident
2007-03-07 17:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if a guy likes u for u, then he will love u no matter how u look or wat ur in...i kno i gained some weight, but hey guys love it! theres nothing wrong with getting a little thicker and some extra cushion! u can still wear sexy clothes but make sure they fit u, and u will be fine! work with wat u have!! and if ur confident, then he'll love it!!!
2007-03-07 17:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur hubby married u for who u r. dont change youself
2007-03-07 17:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by : ) !@#$%^&* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope not really fi i did i would i would tell you but nope sorry
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2007-03-07 17:17:05 · answer #11 · answered by clemsontigers29621 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋