Playboy magazines and other books? I am 15 and my mom recently found my stuff under my matress and now she says for me not to hide them, but I sense she is different towards me now, what does a mom think about when she finds them, is she disappointed , mad , or just ok with it?
2007-03-07 09:10:21 · 15 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are no longer her little baby, and she is not the most important woman in your universe anymore, of course she may feel a little upset - even jealous. However, her acceptance of that makes her a wonderful person. You are very lucky, I hope you treat her properly.
2007-03-07 09:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Of course she understands you're a man and most men go through this. Its normal. But at the same time she's ur mom so she now knows for a fact she can't ever baby you again and she is a woman before shes ur mom so she's wierded out a little. I dont think she's disappointed in you for porn just for hiding it but she's not that mad cuz its understandable not to want something like that out in the open.
Overall my advice is not to talk about it-she's not your buddy, dont leave it around the house and just chill out. The wierd vibes in the house will go away soon.
2007-03-07 09:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Granted I am older, my husbands mom buys playboy and maxim for him and has since he was 16. I think that playboy is very tastefull and I like to read the stories. If I have a son, once he is 14, I will be ok with him exploring sexuallity, in that manor.
2007-03-07 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gap 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest your mother can go to jail for you having adult material and you being under the legal age of 18 yrs old to have them- Now will the police come raid your room with a swat team doubt it but if one of your friends tell their parents or if the school finds them they can call child protective services and that is when she can get into problem..
Laws are for a reason....
2007-03-07 13:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a mom of 3 boys ages 16,15,11 and we aren't mad about it we are just sad when we find things like that we know your not our lil baby's any more and as a mom we try to keep our kids young as long as we can its hard to lose your lil boy
2007-03-07 09:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well I have 2 sons my self, although mines ain't into that just yet.
She's not mad, your a young man, and are curious about the female body.
if anything she may be sad to realize that her little boy ain't so little no more. but mad? NO, hurt? a little. but hey that's life kids grow up, and mom's and dad's get hurt by that realization.
2007-03-07 09:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents worried alot i tel lbe cuz i have two ages 16 and 9 year olds she is not mad at u she said seeing uu grow and soon u we live her
2007-03-07 13:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by unknoww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a mom yet, but if i found them, i'd sit him down and lay it out that he's only to keep them in his room, do not give them to friends, do not take them to school. they are your (my son's) personal business, and until he's 18, he needs to keep it strictly to his room.
(and maybe the bathroom)
times are changing, and perhaps parents are being more lenient towards these things.
2007-03-07 09:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by strwrs7772000 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If she says that she does not care, then she does not care. Masterbation and porn are perfectly normal, and natural parts of being a teenage boy.
2007-03-07 09:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels disappointed knows that you are growing up and having feelings and it's part of nature and she understands.
she just wants you to treat woman with respect, not treat them like sex objects.
2007-03-07 09:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋