Boy, you screwed yourself royally on this deal, didn't you? But it doesn't sound like you've learned the lessons....you're still only thinking of yourself, looking out for number one. "How long will THIS relationship last?" shouldn't be your first question.
You should be asking how to get your life back on track - re-establish a relationship with your children and hopefully teach them better things than "if it feels good, just do it". You should be feeling regret over the hurt and pain you've caused the former husband you yourself describe as "wonderful". You should be thinking of something other than the shelf life of an adulterous relationship or the precious reputation of this teacher that needs some life lessons of his own.
As long as you are asking "what about me" and "what's going to meet MY needs", then you're probably going to skip from unsatisfying relationship to unsatisfying relationship...maybe for the rest of your life. When you start asking yourself what you can do to meet someone else's needs (like the family you skipped out on), that's when you're going to find true and lasting happiness in your life.
I'm speaking hard, but it's truth spoken in love. You don't have to stay on this page - you can do more with your life and more for the sake of your children than where you are today. Lose this philandering "main squeeze" and start putting some squeeze on your own heart and conscience.....and then get ready to live the truly good life!
Wishing you all the best -
2007-03-07 09:05:01
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answered by CassandraM 6
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2015-01-28 07:39:17
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answered by Anonymous
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long average relationship born infidelity
2016-02-01 02:57:14
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answered by ? 4
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2016-01-13 02:14:55
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answered by ? 3
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You refer to your new man as your squeeze. I don't see the word "love" when you talk about your new squeeze. It sounds like that's all he is to you. No one knows how long they last but you said your husband was wonderful and now all you have is a playmate and no kids. What a shame. I wish you luck.
2007-03-07 08:58:43
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answered by Anonymous
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u started it out, my wonderful husband, u never gave your hubby a chance, he never had a chance to change things, u never told him, u just got angry and decided to have an affair. sounds like u are already the looser. u will soon get sick and tired of life with the teacher, now your financial needs are not being met. personally i would make amends with my ex, go back home, and grow up. we can't look to someone else to meet our needs, and fill us up emotionally, that job belongs to us. i would go back home to my husband, and beg him to take me back if i were u, and not worry about my pride or ego. u need to grow up, the things u are doing don't make for a happy life. and the longer u wait and waste time with the teacher, its time wasted. go back to your kids and hubby, change the way u see things, this thing with the new guy will not last long, its called lust. will end alot sooner since he is not meeting many of your needs. no one can meet our emotional needs, or make us feel full, we have to do that ourselves. don't wait till your husband moves on, and finds someone new, than u will feel sad. u can fix this with your husband, this was all caused by your expectations, and your immaturity.
2007-03-07 09:13:52
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answered by jude 7
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Well if you think he's worth the time and effort and he's fun and you feel like you may love him it could last awhile (forever)?
If you have to ask though it may not be a good sign.
Whose to say > - time will tell and just make sure he meets your needs.
Don't settle for less this time.
2007-03-07 08:55:25
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answered by kelly e 7
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The average love affair/fling last for about two years. Tick Tock Tick Tock
2007-03-07 09:09:14
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answered by FF Geek 3
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My Ex, messed around on me too. But, in Georgia? She gets the Kids, no matter who did the messin' around. Live with your mistakes? And don't make `em again. And with your Living conditions? I don't see you lasting with The Teacher, too long, either.
2007-03-07 08:59:44
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answered by Goggles 7
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If he was just as willing to cheat with you on your husband knowing that you have one already, it won't last too long, he's going to cheat again
2007-03-07 08:53:57
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answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3
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