I'm a female myself and have always been attracted to guys. Over the past few years or so I have had an attraction to 3 women though. These attractions are so strong...what's going on? Any advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated :)
2007-03-07 08:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by yahooligan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd have to agree with Firefly... sexuality IS fluid...
I've been attracted to females my whole life for as far as i can remember... I was 15 years old when i kissed a girl for the first time and it was THE most beautiful thing, something that made TOTAL sense and made my heart feel free...!! I'm 26 yrs old now
and still identify as a lesbian to this day.
Last year, however, i had a boyfriend!
I had been "curious" about guys for like the past two years.
I had been attracted to some, made out with a few, did the deed with two, then finally last year i met a guy who swept me off my feet. WEIRD!! Especially since i consider myself to be a lesbian!
But you cant help where your attractions to people may lead you. Its up to you to deny yourself or to follow your heart!
What you are comfortable labeling yourself is only a word, an idea to wrap your "identity" around...
I think you have the opportunity to experience something LOVELY with a woman, something special, something that many women NEVER get the opportunity to experience because they don't let themselves...
If you find a woman youre attracted to and the feeling is mutual, i say let your heart be your guide....
You can still call yourself Straight... or Bi... or Lesbian, if you like..
LOL.... Enjoy!! :-D
2007-03-07 09:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by The cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never fight with your true feelings. There is nothing wrong with being interested sexualy with another woman. It may be that the woman you are interested has or does certain things that you have always found attractive in men and that is why you find them attractive to you now. It also may be that you always had something in the back of your mind that said you liked women but due to sociaty you ignored it. Either way, you are who you are and you should let your body, mind and soul drive who you become in life. You need to embrace the fact that you are a beautiful woman and love yourself unconditionally before you can truly be comfortable in your own skin. Be proud of who you are, dont let others tell you that your feelings are wrong or should be ignored and strive to be nothing more than happy. Good luck.
2007-03-07 17:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand. I'm the type of person who is attracted to certain personalities. Appearance is nice, but it's the personality the catches my heart. If it happens to be a woman than it makes no difference to me. Women are more beautiful than men anyway! lol
2007-03-07 17:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people are attracted to a certain type of personality. and if later on in life you find someone who is the same sex who has that personality, then you will be attracted to them. it's not bad. it's just the way you are.
2007-03-07 16:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are bi. Nothing wrong with it though. Look inside your self and you'll find the answer. If you feel really attracted to her and you think she feels the same then just go ahead and get it out of your system
2007-03-07 16:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to say maybe just maybe you're bi. Because it'll make since you've had 3 attractions to women. Another thing if you've been dreaming about having sex with women things like that.
2007-03-07 16:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a gay woman, maybe bi, but i am guessing gay all the way........you are just now tapping into your sexual identity dont feel bad you cant help who you are attracted to. you have to resolve this inside, dont let others tell you how you feel............only you can be the one to live your life.........but yeah i think you are gay and just now realizing it
2007-03-07 17:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by alex grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sexuality is fluid. You just go with the flow. Leave the labels alone and just let people be."
2007-03-07 16:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by firefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have discovered what really intererst you. Have you been reacting to your feelings
2007-03-07 16:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋