Ever since my son married, his wife always found fault with our family. She claims she never starts any trouble, but constantly insults my cooking, and criticizes my daughter and is rude and arrogant to myself and my husband, and could not understand why one day I finally got upset and told her what I thought of her being disrespectful to our family. I love my son, but he said he had to choose us or his wife, so now we never see him anymore, and he wont even call us. I, his Mom is hurt more than mad, and my daughter is hurt as well since they always had a good relationship when they were growing up together. Im not even allowed to see my grandson. Ive even apolagized for the time I got upset with her, and she still doesnt want us in their life. Im hurt, but I leave them alone. What would you do?
2007-03-07 08:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by autumn wolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is awful that she is so mean as to do something to alienate you from your son.I suppose she feels threatened and does not care for you .But at least she should let him come by to visit and see your grandson! Gez some people. I hope you son will see the light and stand up and say If i want to see my family I will. She doesn't have to visit with you , and it might be better since after all that has happened there is too much tension there anyhow. Good Luck
2007-03-07 08:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my section, it rather is their mom's fault. i'm 22 and my mom has constantly instructed me on condition that i became right into a splash female that i ought to recognize my destiny mom in regulation. She instructed me diverse thoughts that she'd reviews along with her mom in regulation and how she went approximately them by using constantly respecting her husband's mom. right this moment I actually have a mom in regulation and positively my husband and that i preserve her. She is an older female (she had my husband whilst she became into rather previous) and desires help with on a daily basis recurring. each and every now and then, some issues get me upset, yet I constantly undergo in techniques what my mom has instructed me, and that i do my best to make my mom's in regulation existence as uncomplicated as conceivable. I do think of inspite of the undeniable fact that that my mom is a greater useful mom yet there are motives for that. inspite of the undeniable fact that, even nonetheless my mom is a greater useful one, I nevertheless love and recognize my MIL no count what because of the fact if it wasn't for her, i'd in no way be with the affection of my existence.
2016-12-18 07:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am afraid your son has allowed her to act this way and accepts her behavior . There is nothing you can do about it and if he wants to see you he will. but i would not hold my breath of her ever coming around . good luck
2007-03-07 11:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time you son is grown man, if he really wants to see you--he will.
2007-03-07 08:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋