Me and this guy were dating for a month and 9 days. I fell in love with him before we even dated and now we are just best friends. Because why lose the great thing you once had right? Well now he is always talking about this other girl and it makes me want to cry. It hurts to hear him talk about her and tell me how beautiful she is and how he just wants to hold her in his arms. I want to tell him how i feel and ask him to hold off on talking about other girls for a while until i can get it together. Im scared to tell him and have him freak but i cant deal with it. I still love him with all my heart. What should i do?
2007-03-07 08:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Nessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He broke up with me for those who are wondering. He is always telling me he loves me and that im beautiful but he did that before we dated too.
2007-03-07 08:42:13 · update #1
Guy's really are slow aren't they! That is the difference between a chick and a guy! They can move on effortlessly but us poor chicks need time. Tell him he is hurting you by discussing these feelings he has with you. If he wants to remain friends he will stop and I am sure he will apologize.
2007-03-07 08:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you guys break it off in the first place? See if he will still go out with you if you "love" him so much. You obviously still get jealous so maybe you shouldn't worry about losing him if it doesn't work out and just go for it...btw you sound a little young (the whole counting the days you went out thing sounds like something a young girl would do) maybe its just puppy love in which case tell him it still hurts a lil and he should hold off...then try to date someone else. Level that playing field a little.
2007-03-07 16:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I know that hurts to her a guy you love to talk about another chick. My stomach hurts for you. Don't tell him to stop talking about the other women because he might just pull away from you. Try gently changing the subject to something you can handle. I don't think you should tell him how you feel about him because I think he won't return the same feelings.
2007-03-07 16:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and that it makes you uncomfortable to have him talking about another girl in front of you, or either change the subject to something more pleasant for you untill you can tell him how things are making you feel....
2007-03-08 13:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth!!! If he is as great as you think he will be sensitive and care about how you feel as a friend.
2007-03-07 16:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be followin the old make her jealous n desperate trick maybe u lost him just flirt with him and compliment him a lot n make him blush it sure gonna work
2007-03-07 16:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋