I had sex with this "straight" guy and it was fun. Now he want to do it again and I would, the only problem is he likes to call me female names (he said weird things like I want to make you feel like a real woman and stuff like that) thatreally bothers me, but then he is pretty good in bed. Should I tell him to stop calling me names or just not see him again
2007-03-07 08:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by rickyhunter 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Loving: yes he knows I am a guy, I don't dress like a woman. I'm a pretty regular dude
2007-03-07 08:33:33 · update #1
Call him female names ... tell him that you want to **** his boobies. See how that goes over.
That would freak me out. The last thing I want to think about when I am with a guy is being called a woman. YUCK!
2007-03-07 08:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, that’s his kink. He likes girly boys. I understand why this would bother you. There is the heterosexual myth that because you are gay you want to be treated like a woman. Or he could really get off on treating another male as though they were a woman. You’re not a woman you don’t want to be a woman. So it bugs you when you’re treated like one. Especially during sex. And you may wonder if lingerie will be making an appearance in the near future.
I would consider that, he considers himself straight, so this whole making you feel like a real woman thing might just be how he deals with this homosexual relationship. When he is more comfortable with it he may stop calling you “Bettie.”
You could look at like a sex game, a kind of role play. Or tell your self he isn’t trying to be insulting he is just trying to have a good time with you. in a relationship (even casual ones) its not just how he treats you in bed, but out of bed as well. Look at the whole picture and decide of you are willing to put up with it and/or enjoy it, or if this is a deal breaker for the whole thing.
For me, I wouldn’t mind. But then I’m kinky. If he was really good he could have me on all fours and barking.
2007-03-07 17:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hermit IX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who are "pretty good" in bed are a dime a dozen and you don't need the homophobic attitude (he's obviously trying to justify having sex with you). Dump him and find a man who will treat you like the man you are.
2007-03-07 16:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is good in the sack wear your ipod or earplugs and hump his brains out.
2007-03-07 16:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's calling you other names than who you are, he's disrespecting you, 'nuff said.
2007-03-07 18:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him to stop callin u that names
2007-03-07 17:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude..you are lucky...let him call you whatever he wants.
2007-03-07 16:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you're a guy?
2007-03-07 16:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋