my best friend has never had sex with a guy... she has had sex witha women? she says she like women but how can she if she never tried dick? she doenst even want or is scare .. she thinks she would not like it.. what can she do
2007-03-07 08:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by lissettedabomb 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sounds to me like your friend is a lesbian. Let her be who she is... or at least let her figure it out.
You can't mock the fact that she's never had sex with a man but knows she wouldn't like it. After all, I'm sure you can confidently say that you're not interested in having a homosexual experience, although you've never tried it.
People are all different. Learn to be accepting of them.
2007-03-07 08:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by tah_map 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can continue being the way she is, knowing that she has your support in whatever choice she makes (unless she gets the hots for you! ha ha). I take it you are a female, too, right? But seriously, if you are heterosexual, you've never been with a woman. And probably don't want to be. So why not let her be satisfied in saying that she doesn't want to be with a man, even though she has never tried it? Love your homie for who she is as well as her preferences. She needs a true friend who will reassure her that she is still cool with you, no matter what!
2007-03-07 16:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sherbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously not attracted to men or else she would have jumped one a long time ago. Just let her do her thing with women as long as she's happy, then you can support her on her choices as a true friend would. Thats like someone telling me how could I be straight if I've never tried a women, but I'm not attracted to women that way so I wouldn't even try it.
2007-03-07 16:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her sexuality is her own personal choice, and shouldn't affect you this much. If she is your best friend, then you will love her and accept her regardless of the lifestyle she chooses. Let her decide for herself whether she wants to be with a man or a woman, and all you have to do is support her choice.
2007-03-07 16:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by black_beauty18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known your friend to be this way? I am lesbian and it is scarly to admit it to some people so if she has admitted it to you then she values your friendship. You may not agree with her 100% but you should still support her.
2007-03-10 14:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of your business. She will be - what she will be.
2007-03-07 19:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by juneaulady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do what she has to do... dont make it too much of your business
2007-03-07 16:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by georgia k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋