I really hate what gay men do. What do I do?

Question

Like it really causes me distress. I don't like homosexuality at all. It makes me so friggin angry. But the idea of two guys going at it fills me with hate that I don't know how to handle? What should I do about this? I feel like maybe one day I'll wake up and it will just not exist in the world but I doubt that will ever happen though I wish it would. I am a straight female. I just really can't accept this. I am not totally girly girly. Maybe is that why I just don't accept the girliness of it? Because I'm a girl and I'm not all that girly (though I do like guys a lot)! What do I do about this because it's causing me distress. I saw 2 gay boys at the grocery store and I wanted to smack them. I would never do that of course but I'm filled with rage when I see this. They looked my age (22) and I just felt bad for their parents. Like what do parents think when they know their son is doing a dude??? Why don't I really care as much about lesbians??? Anyone relate to this? Don't hate me plz

I'm not psycho. I just don't like the idea of two guys giving it to eachother. See I knew it. You guys are right. I should just feel completely okay with the fact that two guys have sex. Yeah. ummmm...no. I knew I would be labeled as psycho and crazy. You know what this is only going to fuel my anger. I wish a gay person would just say I honestly can see why it makes you uncomfortable. Wow! Wouldn't that be amazing. But nooooo, we get turned into bad people for disliking that that goes on. This is why I just really don't like gays. I'm sorry. And I ain't going to no therapy! That was just funny.

Okay. Wow. I get called a latent lesbian who wishes I was as feminine as gay guys. This is just great. Good answers everybody! Just keep on doing what you're doing. Phuck it. Who cares. Just glad I'm not anywhere near any of these people. You have this self-defense mechanism that's like encoded in your anus or something everytime you hear anti-gay remarks!

penis envy??? You know what I'm done with this. This is just pitiful. Why do I have the problem? You down there are phucking a guy? And I have the problem???? Excuse me???????????????????

In all seriousness though, this is why there is hate for gays. Because you can't look at yourself from our point of view. We try to live right and yet you make us feel like we are wrong for not wanting this filth to inflitrate society?? I think it is just deep deep insecurity. you go home at night and feel disgust with yourself don't you?? DON'T YOU!!!! You know you do. That is why the self-defense and blaming and diagnosing me with something makes you feel better. And that's why you need your butt pleasured so often..to distract yourself from really looking at who you are and you are an abomination!! Great word!!

I couldn't give a dayum what you degenerates think about me! I'm straight!!! I live the right way. Actually I really hope that a gay person hates me because I don't want anything to do with them!

I have a life. I'm going to school and I have a very satisfying sex life thank you. This just convinced me to forget about you all and just pretend you don't exist. I don't just sit and ruminate on this but I do get very angry about it and this did not help!!!!

I take responsibility for my hate. Why don't homosexuals take resp;onsibility for their actions? I honestly don't want to hate you and my question was first asked with the hope that ppl would give me some good answers as to what I could do. But then when I saw that all anyone could really say was that I'm immature, uneducated, ignorant, a latent lesbian, and that I have penis envy, that's when I just said to myself that I really just don't like you. I will never post in this forum again because I will never find what I'm looking for. Don't feel sorry for me feel sorry for yourselves.

Answer 1

You DO have a problem. You're green with envy and jeaslousy!

Why so angry? Blame the gays for the fact YOURE NOT GETTIN
ANY?
Or for your own bad taste in men?

Did you even stop to consider that maybe their parents are GLAD
their son is gay? Maybe the parents are gay also?

Are you extemely religious or just a nut case, or both?

Learn to relax and release your fears tensions and anxiety,
and your anger!

Just emotionally 'drop" it and walk away from it.

You never have know a gay guy as a person, or you would not
be so prejudiced. have you ever been judged or put down by others because of your heritage? if so why do it to others?

If all the gay men of the world suddenly vanished, and their
contributions did also, you would have no clothes music or
fashion to enjoy.

Is that what you want?

And I dare you to tell me where Jesus said homosexuality is
bad. He was the Son of God, can't get much more direct than
that. In fact, some people think Jesus was gay, cause he
never marrried, ran around with 12 guys devoted to him, and
even called one of them "beloved".
(John the baptist).

So your hatred is illogical and unnatrural.

And when you point at others saying "bad! bad" remember God
planned it so the other fingers point back to the real problem--
ourselves!

Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, Nam Myoho Renge Kyo!

Answer 2

Ya know, I really don't like the thought of straight sex, or gay male sex myself. I'm a lesbian though so it kinda makes sense. I don't hate straight people or gay men, however it just my orientation. Perhaps you should try not to concentrate on what innocent human beings do in the privacy of their own home and worry about your own sex life.

You should also try looking at yourself from our point of view as well. You hate us for our very existence. We don't even affect your everyday life and yet you still hate homosexuals.

You said that you feel you should see things differently...

"I'm not psycho. I just don't like the idea of two guys giving it to each other. See I knew it. You guys are right. I should just feel completely okay with the fact that two guys have sex"

I'm not saying this to be a ***** or rip on you or anything but such extreme hatred that you seem to bee feeling isn't healthy. I strongly and sincerely suggest you seek some counseling about this issue. You don't seem to want to hate us, you just seem to for no realistic reason. Perhaps counseling will help you with that. I hope you take my words as sincere help and not just bashing, please try to find solace from your hate and look for compassion. Counseling can help with this.

Answer 3

Listen,

You have problems. And while you may not like what other people do with THEIR OWN LIVES, you have no right to sit there and judge people. Are you god? Do you seriously think that you are right and everyone else is wrong? Grow up. How old did you say you were? Because you sound like an ignorant and immature child.

Keep your stupid opinions to yourself, we don't want people to lose their brain cells, do we?

It's ok to think being gay is wrong. It's not ok to think that all gay people are an abomination, nor is it ok to sit there and just bash them.

You have no reason to sit at home and just obsess about gay men and what it is they do. If you're that curious, go ahead and stick something up your butt, then see how you feel about it. You can't judge anything till you've tried it, right?

Leave people alone and get your own life.

Love,
A straight person who thinks you are an disgrace to the world, and to all other straight people.

Answer 4

It wouldn't hurt to talk about this with a therapist. I'm not saying you're crazy, but the way you described it "But the idea of two guys going at it fills me with hate that I don't know how to handle" could become a problem if the pattern continues, so you might want an objective person to speak to about it.

Answer 5

Your question is not even a question, as you don't seem to want to do anything about the fact that you hate gay people. You seem to just be stating it as a simple fact. I'm not sure what your goal in this is, is it just to piss people off? If you did want to get over it, you could get some counselling or make some gay friends. If you don't, than you're no better than racist who says the sight of a black person makes them angry and sick. Ever think that a gay person has caught sight of the look on your face when you saw them, and that your face made them feel angry or nauseated? I have a feeling you have a face that nauseates anyone who has the misfortune of seeing it. I wouldn't brake for you, you homophobic *****.
You hope gay people hate you? I'd bet a million bucks you got your wish! Bet lots of straight people hate you too!

Answer 6

You should definitely see a therapist of some sort if your feelings are more towrds rage & hatred than towards confusion & curiousity.
Im not sure what to tell someone that can express that much hostility to someone that did nothing to you but breath the same air as you & be in your eye sight.
You should get out more is a thought that comes to mind. Maybe meet a homosxual person that won't beat the crap out of you & ask them things that you don't understand...
anything would help & you obviously know you have a problem if you brought it here.

Answer 7

Hon, you've already posted comments/questions like this before..... why do you keep on addressing the same issue, and in all places here in LGBT. Your only looking for attention be it positive or negative. We all know you hate gay men, enough said..... You asked what you should do, how about seeing a therapist...... you end your statement with "Don't hate me plz".... why do you keep on doing this..... I don't hate you I feel sorry for you....

Answer 8

What is that Gay Men do? I don't understand how u see nothing wrong with lesbians but see something wrong with Gay men. Is it because they have a penis and women don't?

U seem to reply to all of the comments that u don't like. U really don't want an answer, u just want to put Gay men down.

Answer 9

LOL! Brilliant! I think you got a case of homophobia. Or perhaps you are a closeted lesbian? God love ya.


Homophobia is the unreasoning fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals.[1] It can also mean hatred, hostility, or disapproval of homosexual people, sexual behavior, or cultures, and is generally used to insinuate bigotry. The term homophobic means "prejudiced against homosexual people,"and a person who is homophobic is a homophobe.


It’s so wonderful being a gay person. I said that before. I’m going to say it again. I love being gay. And I love gay people. I think we’re better than other people. I really do. I think we’re smarter and more talented and more aware and I do, I do, I totally do. And I think we’re more tuned in to what’s happening, tuned into the moment, tuned into our emotions, and other people’s emotions, and we’re better friends. I really do think all of these things. And I try not to forget them.

Larry Kramer


"Homophobia is like racism and anti-Semitism and other forms of bigotry in that it seeks to dehumanize a large group of people, to deny their humanity, their dignity and personhood. This sets the stage for further repression and violence that spread all too easily to victimize the next minority group."

"I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people.... But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King Jr. said, 'Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.' I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream, to make room at the table of brotherhood and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people."

Mrs. King said that her late husband Martin Luther King Jr. supported the quest for equality by gays and said that the 1963 March on Washington was organized by Bayard Rustin, an openly gay civil rights activist.

-Coletta Scott King (wife to Martin Luther King Jr.)


"Jesus did not say, 'If I be lifted up I will draw some'." Jesus said, 'If I be lifted up I will draw all, all, all, all, all. Black, white, yellow, rich, poor, clever, not so clever, beautiful, not so beautiful. It's one of the most radical things. All, all, all, all, all, all, all, all. All belong. Gay, lesbian, so-called straight. All, all are meant to be held in this incredible embrace that will not let us go. All."

"Isn't it sad, that in a time when we face so many devastating problems – poverty, HIV/AIDS, war and conflict – that in our Communion we should be investing so much time and energy on disagreement about sexual orientation?" [The Communion, which] "used to be known for embodying the attribute of comprehensiveness, of inclusiveness, where we were meant to accommodate all and diverse views, saying we may differ in our theology but we belong together as sisters and brothers" now seems "hell-bent on excommunicating one another. God must look on and God must weep."

Since then Dr. Tutu has increased his criticism of conservative attitudes to homosexuality within his own church, equating homophobia with racism. Stating at a conference in Nairobi that he is "deeply disturbed that in the face of some of the most horrendous problems facing Africa, we concentrate on 'what do I do in bed with whom"

-ArchBishop Desmond Tutu

Answer 10

Your opinion. your miserable existence. Hating anything to this extent will never "cure" anything.
You have expressed your anger, now go for a walk and work off some of your bile.
Rose P.