If two people break up, is it strange/wierd/wrong that they continue to share th same bed and occasionally have sex?
2007-03-07 08:07:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't say it's strange, but it's definitely a BIG sign of not moving on. Most likely, one person is holding on to the other who hasn't found something (or someone) else to move on to. Unless there is honest interest in working out the problems of the relationship, they should probably stop, just to save their own feelings.
2007-03-07 08:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by sapphirafire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think that it is strange that two people who broke up still would sleep in the same bed and have sex with each other. I mean, you broke up. Why are you two still together and having sex? Why not say that you are seperated? That is just retarded. That does not even make sense at all. I mean, I wonder if one of the two have a relationship with anyone outside of this and knows about this.
2007-03-07 08:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will have different views no matter what but my personal is that sharing a bed is not so bad, sex however can be miss leading and is hard to get out of any emotional or sexual tension, etc
2007-03-07 08:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong but I do think it could be emotionally unhealthy.
If you break up with someone you should cut loose and continue with life. Continuing to have sex is sending out the wrong signals not only to each other but to family and friends.
If both people are struggling to let go then maybe they should reconsider what their relationship should be.
2007-03-07 08:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong because if they are broken up, I think they should move on and commit to something else instead of being in this halfway situation. But its not strange, loads of people do it, including my friends, although they know it isnt a good idea.
2007-03-07 08:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That dont sound like two people that have broken up to me.
That's sounds like most relationships
Share the same bed, occasional sex
in fact that sounds like me ( ha)
Its not wrong or strange as long as they do not have another partner.
I mean better the devil you know :-)
2007-03-07 08:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's not weird! My sister is in the same situation! Her & Her "ex" have 2 kids together and are no longer talking or have a care in the world about eachother, and they still have the occasional "get2gether"..
It's kinda weird,but I guess more people do it than we all think:)
2007-03-07 08:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by MoMmY AlOrA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit yes... but i'm sure there is alot more to it than we are left to assume. If they just broke up for the hell of it and are carrying on like this, it seems strange that they even broke up and sort of seems as if they havent...
2007-03-07 08:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - why did the two people break up in the first place? it makes you wonder if they respect each other or themselves or were only after having sex out of teh realtionship anyways - if they broke up obviously t here is no feeling there, no love or anything, just pure taking advantage of the situation and in teh end one of them will get hurt.
2007-03-07 08:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do not get on but are sexually attracted there are various stages of breaking up this is the not quite over stage
2007-03-07 08:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋