my best friends are making me choose between them and my other best friend...wat do i do!!!!????
2007-03-07 08:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by Rhode Islanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's lame and your real "best friend" would never make you do that. Pick the other one that ISN'T forcing you to choose.
2007-03-07 08:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stand up for yeourself. Why are they making you do something liek that? Listen and listen good if they were really your best friends or friends at all then they would wnat you to be happy and see that your happy. They wouldn't put you through all this becasue it stresses you out and that's not good for you so therefore your not happy. Sit them all down and talk to them about how you feel. If they listen and put what you say into action then good keep the friendship up. If however, they dont then break it off. There is someone who wants you to be stress free which is being happy and they're worth the time and woth being around and with. Yet alone worth being called a friend, a best friend on top of that. It may seem hard at first if it doesn't work out, but you'll get over it. I did and I'm a senior. Friends dont do that to friends and that's the bottom line.
2007-03-07 16:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, if you choose one friend, you'll hurt the other friend's feelings. And you shouldn't have a 'favourite' friend anyway. Tell them that it's ridiculous and immature that theyre making you decide who you like better. Ask them why they're making you choose? It might be that the two friends are having a little disagreement.
2007-03-07 16:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose neither. You'll break even that way. You don't lose or gain anything, but if your friends are your friends, they wouldn't force you to make that kind of decision.
2007-03-07 16:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this situation before i try to get both sides of the story but usually it doesnt work out one of my friends assumed i chose some one else. i told the both of them i am not gettin in the middle of it so i started hangin out with someone else. i no this might not help but they eventually got over it.
2007-03-07 16:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by shy_grl_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you feel to be the one left out? friends don't put that kind of pressure on other friends. stand up to the one's making you choose and tell'em deal w/it !! If they drop you because you won't choose then they were never your friends to begin with!!
2007-03-07 16:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were your friends they would not make you chose. I would let them all know that you are not going to chose one over the other.
2007-03-07 16:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by buzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your real best friends wouldn't make you do somethin like that - say you ain't gonna choose and just spend time with them all so that their all happy!
2007-03-07 16:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to chose if they don't like your friends then they don't have to be your friend. They should just be cool about it
2007-03-07 16:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by blackshadowbabe33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you want to be both of their friends and if they say no to that they arent true friends and you need to find new friends:)
2007-03-07 16:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ SMILEYMILEY ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋