When ever I wake up I feel stressed out because I feel like I need a better life and thats because CESAR MILLAN AND DAVID BLAINE IS NOT IN IT!!!!!!!!!! I hate when I think of things like I will never meet them or I will never get over them!!!! Everytime I see them on tv I go crazy because they are so AMAZING to me!!!!unbelievable!!!!! Each day I try to think of ways I can be more like them!!!!!!!!!!!! please help any advice??? will this thing pass??????!!!?? I get mad when ever I see all of my friends around being happy and joyful because it makes me even more depressed and makes me feel like no one else feels this way!!!!!!
2007-03-07 07:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by happy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that you should seek happiness in your own life and not try to imitate others or be jealous of them. Sometimes I see what a nice life Donald Trump has and I imagine flying around in my own personal helicopter. But that is someone else's life.
Cesar Milan and David Blaine both worked hard to get to where they are now. Imagine if Cesar Milan woke up ever day and said "My life is horrible because XXX isn't in it!" And every day he would be jealous or upset that XXX [fill in blank] wasn't in his life.
*Do you think he would ever get to be where he is now if all he ever did was bemoan his situation?*
You should seek out the things that make you happy as a person and not try to imagine how it is to live someone else's life.
*What activities make you happy?*
*What do you want to accomplish for yourself in life?*
*What is the profession you aspire towards?*
Notice that none of my questions involve either Cesar Milan or David Blaine. They involve YOU!
When you see your friends being happy, is it because they are with a famous person? Probably not! They are happy even WITHOUT being friends with famous people.
*Real happiness comes from INSIDE, not from OUTSIDE*
All of us want to have fame, fortune, luxury, but simply by imagining it or fantasizing about it, we will never get to have it.
*Fame and fortune are part luck, but also a lot of hard work.*
People don't get to become famous by sitting on their tookus and fantasizing about how life would be if they were rich and famous. They become rich and famous by getting OFF their tookus and working hard at realizing a goal. If you set your mind to a goal, that is 1/2 the battle. The other half is working hard to get there!
You may never become famous, or marry a famous person, but if you work hard, maybe with a little luck you will become famous and rich.
*But no one ever got rich doing nothing!*
So my suggestion to you is to look towards the things in your own life- not Cesar Milan's or David Blaine's- that make you happy. What motivates you? What goals do you have for yourself?
*Write down your goals first*
*Then work towards them!*
Your goals should be about your own life, not somene else's. When you finally realize this, you will laugh at how funny it was to be so enamored by two people who really are much like the rest of us. Sure, they are rich and famous, but they worked very hard to get there. Some years ago, they were just like you, trying to realize their own goals in life. But they worked towards their goals!
*Now it's time for you to do the same!*
2007-03-07 08:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by bloggerdude2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write them a goodbye letter. You need to get over it, they don't know you exist, and they probably never will. But seriously, write them a goodbye letter, like you would a boyfriend/girlfriend and wouldn't expect them to write you back.
2007-03-07 16:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get really busy soon and have little time for obssessions in a short while, dont stress on it.
2007-03-07 16:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by SmOKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on realizing that you have a problem, now please go and get help. Its not healthy
2007-03-07 16:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by moomoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋