Okay...I am a bigger girl, but when I am out by myself...guys hit on me and stuff. I dont think I am like hollywood pretty, but I am not EKKK ugly either...just a bit thick...I am a mother after all...Some people say I am a MILF...some I am too thick, some say I am perfect...that depends on taste...but When I am out by myself, I feel attractive and sexy.
But, when I am out with my girlfriends (who are all shorter and skinnier than me) I feel like the body guard of the group. My girlfriends dont think of me that way, but if I catch sight of myself in a window, next to one of them...I feel like this amazon and my self esteem plumits.
So my questions is...Do men look at girls and say that ones hot that ones hot ...or do they compare to each other...so I am okay looking by myself...but not so much when out with my thinner friends.
And why do I care...seriously do I have body issues or what?
2007-03-07 07:51:19 · 2 answers · asked by deda 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Guys notice all women. Big, small, skinny, whatever. I will admit that a lot of guys are pigs. Maybe there is some pig in me. However, I would never be outright insulting to a person. It is wrong, and by now you should know that I have serious issues with generalizing and stereotyping. That said, I have been with the same girl for most of my life. We practically raised each other. Not saying that I don't "look at the menu," but I never order. In fact I would most likely be like a 14 year old boy if I ever hooked up with a new girl for whatever reason.
I am more attracted to a girl who looks like she is not afraid to eat. This image of woman that the fashion industry has created does nothing for me. If you appear to be comfortable with yourself, the more attractive you will be to others. Does this make any sense. I know I kind of went all over the place. Keep your head up!!
2007-03-07 09:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by B aka PE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - not a guy so I'm not sure how much my answer would apply BUT just like guys....not all guys go for the SAME type of person. Yes, some guys do like the smaller chics, but some guys also like girls that are larger too. BUT one thing that you have to remember though....personality really is the superior trait and the one that rules out.....I know it's easier said than done....really....be proud of yourself, and how you look. To me, some guy may be tres yummy looking....but to another he may be yuck....same with girls.... :) *smiles*
2007-03-07 17:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by kristina807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋