My brother wants me to join him and his lover for a 3 some.
It seems gay to me but he said our swords wont touch. His wife asked for a 3 some with us for her birthday.
What should I do? I kinda dont want to but dont want to hurt their feelings.
2007-03-07 07:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by larry t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
*PUKES*...If you don't mind your brother's nuts rubbing all over you...then go for it...*pukes again*
2007-03-07 07:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me old fashion if you will but you and your brother should not share sex with any women and especially a wife. I think alot of relationships could be hurt from something like that, there could become a jealosy issue if your sister in law found you more sexually stimulating than her husband he could resent you later, and what if once you all do the deed you all find it difficult to seperate the act and thing get weird in the family? If it became a hostile issue could you tell your mother " Well mom it all started when bub, and I had a threesome because his wife wanted it for her birthday"?
Better to hurt their feelings now as to distroy the family later
2007-03-07 08:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with the idea you shouldn't do it just to avoid hurting their feelings. Do you think they considered yours when they asked? These situations are best avoided unless the people involved are like-minded (preferably unrelated) consenting adults. You could simply say you're flattered they asked but you're not comfortable with the idea. In future if anyone asks you to do anything you're not comfortable with ask yourself if whatever it is would be in your best interest. If the answer is 'no', decline straight away. Saves worrying and lets everyone know where they are straight away.
2007-03-07 07:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm getting kinda pissed off while my bf does not want intercourse the two. I advise i do unlike yell at him or something yet like final evening case in point, we've been cuddling and that i grew to become into in the temper yet he grew to become into like "its too warm in here" and then "we could in basic terms cuddle." and then fell asleep after awhile. i could no longer help yet be disenchanted and a splash pissed off yet I dealt with it. If it befell on a daily basis for months i may be mad too. i understand that in the process the experience that your no longer in the temper your no longer in the temper yet possibly you may nevertheless do issues for him to help him out because of the fact otherwise the temptation to get it from yet another source would be very sturdy. i understand we are meant to stay unswerving and that i might under no circumstances decide to cheat yet I admit that if I wasn't getting it for awhile the temptation may be so super that something might desire to ensue. i might in all probability could in basic terms go away him as much as that would suck. Being sexually nicely matched is extremely significant.
2016-09-30 08:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by clawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! It will change your relationship with your brother forever. If she was ever to look at you again your brother would think she wanted you and get very jealous. Introduce them to someone that you know that may want to do this with them, that way you help but are not a part of it.
2007-03-07 08:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, it's too much to ask of a brother.
If I weren't in a relationship, that's the kind of thing that I would at least think about for a friend, but NEVER for a family member.
Just imagine if you got her pregnant, that would really disgrace your whole family.
2007-03-07 08:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the sort of favor that can really come back and bite you later. Just say that you don't want every thanksgiving dinner at the folks to feel weird for the next 20 years.
2007-03-07 07:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't go and do something like that just because you're afraid of hurting their feelings.
Just straight up tell them that your not comfortable with it, and I don't know, maybe buy them a toy or something sexy for her birthday so they can spice up their sex life between just the two of them.
2007-03-07 07:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it !!!!!!!!!!!! When you do not feel right about something don't let someone talk you into it. It is your brother , you will never beable to look at him or his lover again. Tell, him there are things brothers do for each other but not this. Tell him if he loves you he will respect your feelings.
2007-03-07 07:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by springer 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you in bed but doesnt want to hurt your brothers feelings. Refuse the threesome but ask her privately if she wants a one on one.
2007-03-07 08:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by Andyml 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who cares if their feelings get hurt what about you? you have a right to not want to have a threesome! tell them to go some where else with their perversion
2007-03-07 07:54:38 · answer #11 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋