2007-03-07 07:35:50 · 23 answers · asked by Alan D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave him alone! DAH
2007-03-07 07:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Shadygoingson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men (including straight men) have a hidden sexual thing for men.
I like men too, (though in my society I'm still straight, because straight is the guy who is masculine, whoever he may like, and gay is the guy who is feminine, whoever he may like sexually).
I liked this other guy in my class who I thought was making advances to me too. I sat too close to him in a class (we had to sit on the floor), and he enjoyed this closeness for sometime, then suddenly was filled with remorse, got up and left.
After that whenever he saw me he would try to impress upon me that he is into girls (and so I should not misjudge him). Weeks passed by. I did not like that situation, but kept a brave and uncaring front. I had no crush on him, and it was not like that I felt bad about leaving him.
then after two months or so, suddenly one day he came and sat next to me. I pretended to be completely unfettered but tried to avoid touching him. But slowly and slowly he moved towards me, till my feet were pressing his hips (We were squatting on the floor and there was plenty of room) was sitting on the floor. I had my ego hurt already by his past behaviour and I wanted to take it back on him, but I just kept sitting like nothing has happened, and it doesn't affect me either way. After the class I never looked back at him. It was turn now for his ego to be hurt.
He was definitely making advances towards me ------- I know because I have had several such incidents. This is the straight male way of making advances towards another straight guy ------- unspoken, unacknowledged, quiet, secretive and seemingly casual. And it is the same way with the straight men in the west, only that there is very little space for straight men to do this sort of thing.
2007-03-11 01:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight and i found out that this gay girl like me... i had no problem with it! if this guy is a nice person he'll probably have no
problem with it. if he does have a problem with it, than there's nothing you can do, that's what gay and straight people do, they sometimes like people who don't like them back. so all you can do is hope that he's not a jerk!!! and if he is than he's not Worth liking anyway!
2007-03-07 07:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's straight and your gay, there isnt much you can do more then likely he is embarrased about it. if he's secrectly curious he'll come to you one day but don't tryto push it because you willmake him extremely uncomfortable and with all that testostrone he might hurt you physically to prove he "straight" manhood in front of others. just stick to the guys you know are gay, don't let yourself get hurt.
much love =)
2007-03-07 07:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really gay (and not just making up this question), you wouldn't be interested in pursuing a relationship with a straight guy. You would want someone with your own interests.
2007-03-07 07:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by ra63 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
leave him alone, respect the fact that he's straight. I'm sure you know as well as us all that in the past situations like this have become very dangerous.
2007-03-07 10:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by weary minded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to do anything, if he's straight there's no problem, unless he confronts you in which case just tell him you know he's straight so he should take it as a compliment.
2007-03-07 07:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if he did find out? He might be bi secretly.. You never know. If he's mean and whatever, then you know he's not the right guy for you, personality wise. Or you could have a little fun with it.. Creep him out =]
2007-03-07 07:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is if hes stright you cant be iwht him and if you try and get close you will psuh him away. You need to stick to gay guys or you loose straight mates
2007-03-07 08:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Didn't you just ask this? I'm sure another guy in here has a similar question... Are you both after the same bloke?
2007-03-07 07:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carry on just as you would if he had not found out - you didn't suddenly grow a second head!
2007-03-07 07:38:45 · answer #11 · answered by Fuentes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋