its their natural tendency to crave for sex, then why do most women resist it when they are forcefully raped. why don't they just agree and rather enjoy the sex, whether it be with any man.
2007-03-07 07:34:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
So they can press charges for sexual assault later.
2007-03-07 08:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 21⤋
On a scientific aspect:
First off, it's not women's natural tendency to crave sex. It's actually more a man's than a woman. Woman crave children more. (Take any gender class at a university, and they will talk about this).
As woman want to have children, they are looking for a quality mate who will have good genes for these children. A forceful rapist will not have these qualities, as he or she has obvious mental issues, and a power struggle.
From a woman's aspect:
Everyone gets aroused, and wants sex. No one wants it from a person that they haven't chosen. This is the sole purpose of attraction. You don't try to pick up a woman you aren't attracted to, do you? Well women don't want to have sex with someone that they aren't attracted to. Women also aren't turned on by violence, and cannot enjoy an act of assault. On a side note, rapists are likely to be very... brutal with their methods. Because rape is about power and not sex, it basically isn't really sex. There may be a few "gentlemanly" rapists, but most rape in a painful manner, causing both mental and physical harm to the victim.
I suggest you learn more about the victim's point of view for rape, before you make idiotic suggestions.
2007-03-09 04:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Hyacinth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?? OK I have a question for you?
do YOU love sex? yes.... OK next question?
how would you feel if someone bigger and stronger than you were to grab you and force themselves upon you? For a woman to do this it would be almost impossible so what I'm really asking is would you like it if a GUY raped you and violated you?? Didn't think so. Despite what you've heard, women are not sex machines that you can turn on and off with a switch. You my friend have some seriously twisted views on the male/female relationship. I hope that you don't live in my city, but if you did feel free to approach me and try some of that bullsh@t on me, you get a nice surprise. BTW, I know karate and kickboxing. You need help
2007-03-07 09:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by #2 on the way! due 12/28 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Rape is a horible epidemic in this country. Every girl I know has had some form of rape or abuse, including me. Forcing a girl against her will, WILL damage the rest of her life. I was raped when I was 9 and I have problems to this day. Maybe you should ask why can't guys take NO for an answer. Your momma didn't teach you very well. You are ignorant and should be totally imbarrassed by that rediculous question. Guys like sex, so its ok that you get raped? Think of some big mean guy forcing himself on you. That wouldn't affect everything you did from that day forward? Sounds like you have a problem and seriuosly need help. If you have forced yourself than shame on you I hope you never get laid again and your dinky little penis shrivels and rots off. IDIOT.
2007-03-07 08:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Being rapped is when the woman does not have a choice, that right is taken away from her. It is degrading, humiliating, and can damage a woman psychologically for the rest of her life. Mostly because the trust is broken. A movie that brings this point home is 'The Generals Daughter' with John Travolta. Why should a woman agree, when it is her body that is being attached? that is hers and no one has the right to force her to do what she does not want to do. It does not matter what she wears, does for a living, every woman has basic rules that she follows and no one has the right to tell her she has to get rid of them because they don't like them, and for her to do what he thinks is right for her. He is the one with the mental problem, and he is forcing her to think his way. In most cases the one doing the rapping is the one who thinks he is a man for it. You are degrading your self, and will never have a woman to love you if she ever finds out that you have done the crime.
2007-03-08 04:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason men oppose being raped, even if they love to have sex...most people prefer to pick who they have sex with, versus having it forced on them. According to your logic, you're into being gang raped by a bunch of guys with aids, and would enjoy every minute of it. If this is the way you think, then your mother, father, brothers and sisters must be sex addicts or prostitutes, since they never say no to a request for sex...please let us know what city/state you live in, with a pic, so we can run as far from you as possible...you're dangerous.
2007-03-07 09:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by rip_2_4_u 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
We might enjoy sex just like every guy does but to be forced into having sex with a person that you may or may not know is traumatizing. Its a very sick feeling to be forced into having sex. Do you have any sisters? Why not ask them or better yet your mother or any other female family member, this question and see what they say. You should duck because I'm thinking you are going to get back slapped from who ever you ask. You want us to just enjoy the sex that we do not want to have. How would you like a girl who you would never ever have sex with sitting on your face without your consent. Would you enjoy it?
2007-03-07 08:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Crash 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because sex may be great -- a guy forcing it on woman is offensive and means taking power of choice away from a woman. And the fact that bieng raped is a violation to a womans person -- and women like men don't want to have sex with every man on earth and it is her right to choose who she has sex with -- not some dirty pervert that happens to snatch her up on the street or brake into her home so he can get his jollies off.
This is such a rude and disgusting thing to ask and you need couseling -- a lot of it.
2007-03-07 08:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You are a moron. The rapist is getting aroused because he is using force and power against someone. He wants her to be terrified and helpless. If she was willing, he would lose that control, and could possibly be provoked into killing her. Apparently, you think rape is just getting some sex. Newsflash, idiot: It isn't about sex at all. It's about the rapist being in a position of complete domination, with the power to strip someone else of dignity and control of their own body. If she were willing, it would deprive him of those things.
By the way, not all women love to have sex with men. Some women prefer to have sex with women. Some prefer pleasing themselves. I suspect that there are very few women that would love to have sex with you.
2007-03-07 09:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Besides the legal and moral questions that you no doubt failed to take into consideration, sex for a woman is more emotionally based than it is for men. Let's face it, men can have sex with a tree stump and enjoy themselves. Women have to be emotionally involved with that tree stump to get the same satisfaction. The idea of being forced to have sex may be somewhat appealing to you, but I can assure you, if you were female, you would be terrified.
2007-03-07 08:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by John D 3 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Rape is not sex! It is assault! It is degrading! It is a crime! Oh! I can't believe that you would even speak of
rape as if it were something a woman would enjoy! It is wrong! What would make you ask such an awful question? If you rape and go to prison chances are Big Bubba would like to rape you! Would you like that?
2007-03-07 09:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋