2007-03-07 07:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by Ron R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why don't you ask her to Marry you and then discuss having a child.
2007-03-07 07:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by marykerbie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. Your girlfriend was not put on this earth to fulfill your needs/wants to have a baby. You should have a baby with someone after you fully discuss that decision. She may not be ready to have a baby with you. If you set her up to get pregnant when she doesn't want to be or can't be, you are setting yourself up for a great disappointment.
Tell her and be honest.
2007-03-07 15:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by jenn_smithson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes, and do you honestly think she wouldn't know? A baby is something that needs to be planned by the two of you! The fact that this is an idea of yours leads me to think that your not mature enough to have a baby if your not mature enough to have the conversation with your gf. If you didn't want to have a baby and she got pregnant on purpose, you would feel trapped, don't you think this would be trapping her?
2007-03-07 15:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by chefck26 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lie is a lie!
Anyways just because you want to have a baby doesn't mean if your girlfriend becomes pregnant your girlfriend will keep the baby. Look at the big picture, what if she has an abortion, or gives the baby up for adoption, or breaks up with you.
2007-03-07 15:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it trully is. if you are mature enough to have sex with this girl, then you SHOULD be mature enough to tell this girl what you want. because you want a child, does not mean you want a child with HER. and it also does not mean she wants a child. and in the end, you get her pregnant, its HER choice. she may want an abortion, all because YOU werent man enough to confess this to her. is it worth it? is it worth possibly commiting such a crime on a child that may only be wanted by one? i'm not saying marry the girl, or tell her you love her, just be honest. honesty is the best key. if the girl doesnt want to take a chance on getting pregnant, then you need to respect the girls wishes, it means that she is not ready. and another thing, if you are saying that you want to go against her will, then you are not ready, nor mature enough, for a child yourself in all reality, a parent does NOT do that!!!! not to be crude, but its the truth.
2007-03-07 15:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? Yes it's wrong. What if she doesn't want a baby? Get married and get a life before the child bearing thoughts come along.
2007-03-07 17:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously..if you aren't MAN enough to tell her what you are doing, you are the LAST person that should be having a child. Grow up, marry the girl, then TALK to her about having a baby.
2007-03-07 15:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by amanda r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming this is a joke since your other questions are just as immature. Get a life. I doubt you'll ever have a chance to make a baby.
2007-03-07 15:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confused about what is morally wrong you don't even need to be having sex!! Grow up first! Thats why we have so many fatherless or bad parents nowadays.
2007-03-07 15:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by lizzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, not only is it wrong but not fair.. You are breaking a trust.. If you want to have a baby then just talk to your gf about it...
2007-03-07 15:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy!! yes of course it is wrong! its looked at as wrong if a woman was to lie to her boyfriend and say she was on the pill and then was deliberately missing taking her contraceptive pill to get pregnant! i think she would notice if you came inside her anyway, i know i would!
get married settle down commit ya selves to each other then talk to HER about starting a family..god, men ay!
2007-03-07 16:42:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋