I never met his kids?

Question

I have been dating this guy going on a year now and I moved down here in May of last year he never wants to go no where with me I ask him sometimes lets go to this place and he always gots an excuse we dont go to the stores together or anywhere unless we go over his friend house but if his friend ask him to go to the mall or something with him he is all for it. Also he has kids I met the little boy but never met his other kids we stay together and when he hang out with his kids he dont bring them here because he is worried about them telling they mother where we stay at I love this man but it seem like he is letting his kids mother dictate his pace I talk to him about it but things remain the same what would you do? I had a situation back after Christmas we were looking at this grill and he said I was going to buy this for you but my baby mama was with me at the store and I asked how they ended up at the store together he said he gave her a ride so she could get the kids stuff help

Answer 1

this is a delicate situation...

You need to ask him what is going on, because you don't deserve to be treated like this. He is going to have to be there for his kids, but he shouldn't have to be spending any time with his ex. My husband has a son from a previous marriage and not only have I met her, but we actually do things together - with the kids.

If he is unwilling to "come clean" with you, then MOVE ON....There are too many men in this world for you to put up with his baggage!

Answer 2

he is still having a relationship with his child's mother and is hiding it from you, why else would he be so worried about her knowing where he lives or going out in public with you, move on and find someone who can actually be honest about what is going on in their life instead of taking you along for a ride.....

Answer 3

he's still seeing his "baby momma" so you arent his GF, hun