My hubby is a college student and this email was sent today from his laptop. Tell me the honest truth here.
Hey beautiful,
The test is exactly what he showed us today in class to the tee.
Good luck don’t think about me to much you have to study hahaha have a good night
2007-03-07 06:59:10 · 16 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You better put that Cowboy on notice. If he is your Husband, he is already talking riding his heart around in the wrong town.
Before you know it, he is liable to park his pony in another's stall!
I'd put him on notice. Obviously an alienation of affections is already in the works, and he has had interactions with this "classless-mate" to feel comfortable enough to call her beautiful and obvioulsy she likes him.
I'd put my foot down now, and paint a real sobering picture of your future with him. DO NOT fall apart right now and get broken hearted. Instead, stand strong, firm, and let some anger and ire out which is your right.
And yes, you had a right to look at his Laptop as there should be NO secrets in marriage. He's already cheating on you in mind in a lessor way, but, before long it could be at higher and physical levels. Better break out the frying pan.
I hate sneaky little prix like this. He better focus on his #1 course which is marriage 101 and hope to get good grades with his Wife! The boy needs a wake-up call.
2007-03-07 07:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how the email was addressed to "Jason Brown", man have you opened a can of worms. ;-)
Obviously he is the kind of guy who slips off his wedding ring in the college parking lot, and the girls in class don't even know he is married.
Want to have some fun? This appears to be a night class, and they always have a break time. Casually ask when break is so you can call him if you are at the store. Instead, go to the school, watch him on break, then walk into class when break is ending.
Walk up, give him a big kiss, grab his a s s cheeks and say - "How's my darling HUSBAND doing? I wanted to bring you some brownies to snack on because you are my HUSBAND and I love you oh so much, DARLING HUSBAND OF MINE. Okay bye my hunnie bunny sweetest HUSBAND, I'll see you when you get home and maybe you can study me for a while. Wink, wink." (feel free to whip off your coat and show off a wicked red and black bustier at this point.)
If any women are watching, ask all innocent - "Oh hi - are you the one he calls "beautiful" in all his emails? Gee I can see why - you *are* cute! Well, he doesn't want you to think about him too much so you can study.Too bad he's already married, huh? Oh, he didn't tell you? Didn't you see his ring? What's that - he hasn't been wearing it? Gasp!"
I mean, have fun kicking the living sh*t out of him in public. Then in private the scream fest can begin in earnest.
But he doesn't sound like he's worth keeping.
2007-03-07 15:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My opinion….. Very disrespectful to you and I’m very sorry. I don’t know how much he likes her, but it is very obvious that he’s flirting with her--- BIG TIME! I would be sooo mad if my husband would write that to anybody. He would have never seen the end of it—and he knows it. Don’t give me wrong, I don’t think he’s cheating on you YET, BUT that’s the start. Be very careful and make sure that he doesn’t make a fool of you. BE SMART and remember this…. He’s not the only guy in the world, so don’t be afraid to make changes or don’t be intimidated by him once you are ready to confront him.
2007-03-07 15:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by L!LO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "beautiful" and "don't think about me to much" are not exactly recipes for a good marriage.
On the other hand, it could just be flirting and no sign that anything serious has happened.
If I was in your shoes, I would confront him with the e-mail and tell him that if this is just flirting, it is inappropriate. If it is anything more, then we need to have a longer talk.
2007-03-07 15:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he's flirting with another student. From the wording used, it doesn't sound to me like it's progressed very far at this point, but it could lead to much more if allowed to continue.
He'll be mad at you for snooping in his laptop, but I wouldn't let it go if I were you. Either way, watch him like a hawk.
Good luck!
2007-03-07 15:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't let him flip it around you for spying on him. He'll definitely try to do that. If worse comes to worse just say "yes, I know I shouldn't have and I feel really bad about that, but unfortunately it has uncovered what looks to be a big problem that we need to talk about".
Don't let it go, and don't let him by with some easy or simple excuse.
2007-03-07 15:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somebody is in trouble, BIG time!!! I'll give him a pass on "hey beautiful". But "don't think about to much" he crossed the line.
2007-03-07 15:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me try to restrain myself - the guy is a worthless, $hit-eating scumsucker and you deserve better.
Wow, I am glad I restrained myself and didn't express what I really think about that urine stain.
2007-03-08 00:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by David K (The Real One!) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about the whole thing. You may have you doubts but nothing like a straight forward confrontation
2007-03-07 15:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes the girl or has something with her, starting with the "Hey Beatutiful" and ending with the " dont think about me to much".
2007-03-07 15:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋