I feel like a bad friend?

Question

When my friend walked in the door, i had us go around the other way to the computer so we wouldn't walk in front of my step dad. I keep replaying the whole thing in my head and wondering if i did it because he will think she is fat or i was embarassed by her and then when we walked to my room, i wondered what he'd think. No matter what someone looks like. if they are purple,pink, blue, black, white, too short or too tall, 50 lbs. or 500 lbs. i will still care about them and be their friend but it bugs me about what i just said. I keep obsessing i actually went through another part of the house so he wouldn't see us and wondered what he'd think when he saw her or if maybe i felt embarassed. Although, i am a good friend besides this. I feel like a horrible friend because i obsess over "what if she knew i did that" ..i feel selfish like i don't deserve to be her friend.

My step dad would NOT say anything ..sorry if you misunderstood

Answer 1

Well if she has an account on yahoo she knows now. That is not a big deal everyone goes threw that once or twice. But like you said size, color, height nothing should be a problem don't be embarrased or anything like that, if your there friend and they are yours stuff like that shouldn't be an issue. It doesn't matter what other people think. Apparently the two of you are friends for a reason, not looks, or size, or race.

Answer 2

On the other hand maybe you were just being polite and not walking in front of your step dad when he was watching tv, which would have been extremely rude. Give yourself some credit for manners! Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 3

don't do that again. if you are truly a friend you would treat her as an equal. your step dad probably wouldn't have said anything but if he had i would tell him i do not care what she looks like she is a true friend. with your friendship maybe she will find the confidence in herself to slim down.

Answer 4

you probably dont deserve her for a friend,