I haven't done it, but I am thinking that it doesn't make any difference. May as well.
2007-03-07 06:48:19 · 26 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a reflection of your values and has nothing to do with your spouses actions.
2007-03-07 06:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower your standards just because you were hurt by infidelity. There are a lot of singles out here to date.
Dating another married person will only add to the pain and hurt that you already have.
Nothing will be solved if you play out this type of game.
2007-03-07 06:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to say two wrongs don't make a right, but why be the source of another bad marriage?
Would you really want to make another person feel the way you did?
You might not care, but someone else just might.
Make you own choice, but really think about it.
2007-03-07 07:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my deal sainted mother would say "two wrongs don't make a right"!
Time for a divorce. Be an adult and don't indulge in playing mind games. It just screws with your head and makes you unsuitable to be with an number of decent women out there.
2007-03-07 06:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by moosviews4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not... because I love my husband. If I wanted to be in another relationship... I would be respectful enough to leave him and persue one. I don't believe in a tit for a tat, or participating in negative behavior just because he does.Handle your problems and don't pull 2 more innocent and unsuspecting people into the equation. Deal with your issues before they deal with you.
Marriage is nothing to play with. If there is a problem that deep.. divorce and date!
2007-03-07 06:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. That bitter, who-gives-a-sh*t feeling. But don't let it consume you. It will wear off, trust me. Don't stoop to the level of your spouse. You'll only feel worse. Give things a little time and you'll see....the anger and bitterness will wear off and you will remember that marriage is a beautiful, sacred thing. Don't mess up someone else's marriage like your spouse messed up yours.
2007-03-07 06:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, two wrongs do not make a right. I have a friend that confessed to me that 18 yrs ago her husband cheated on her and she thought about doing it herself, but did not. she confessed that it gives her a thrill when they have a major argument to tell him she has always been committed to their marriage even though he was a cheating bast***. fights are ot often and they get along fine but she said the first few years were hard.
2007-03-07 06:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just because someone cheats on you it doesn't make it right for you to go out and do the same.
2007-03-07 07:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything we do matters and we'll all have to give an account to God someday for our choices. Plus, why play with fire? Adulterers always get burnt someway or another.
2007-03-07 06:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If anything, it has made me even less tolerant of infidelity. Cheating is wrong, period.
2007-03-07 06:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋