My friend and i were talkin earlier this year & we fell n love. We still are. But he started talkin 2 a girl-and i look WAY BETTER than her!!! I tried 2 keep us together but he chose her instead & now they go out. He isnt in love but he likes her. My birthday was on thursday and we made out (i didnt reach in!!) that day and the next but i didnt know they went out. Then on monday we made out again and i finally found that he has had a girl 4 about a week or two. He still texts me sayin that he loves me & that he misses me. Now i found out that his girlfriend went 2 the movies last weekend with my friends brother. And her brother fingered her and now they go out. Even though i love him, should i tell him that his girl is cheating? Or should i let karma come back 2 him??
2007-03-07 06:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Yes she is cheating, now ask yourself is it worth the end of your friendship Mind your own business!
2007-03-10 10:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, tell him. I mean wouldn't you want him to tell you if your steady wasn't so steady? I can also see why he wants her. She puts out! I know that it's wrong but some guys just can't wait! They will ruin their lives just to get a little before they explode. You have another problem. If she indeed is putting out, then she may get pregnant fairly soon. Then everyones lives suck! If I were you I'd get off the computer and call him right now. You may be saving your own marriage before you even say "I do"!
2007-03-07 11:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infromation is very important, and to know more is to be one step ahead. if you tell this guy that the girl he is dating got fingered by some other guy,,, who knows, he might still keep going out with her, or he might dump her, regardless though,,, he will try to keep u missinformed so that u dont think he is a punk, if he continues to go out with this girl. what u should do is keep it to yourself. and if you must say something,, then tell him u know the girl is a player,, but dont give him any specifics.
2007-03-07 06:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by brasko3001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this should be in the "Marriage and Divorce" category. I think it should be in the "Teens Who Are Doing Stuff They Shouldn't Be Doing" category. One day you'll look back on this and realize how sad it is that you are trying to grow up so fast. Enjoy your childhood while you have it. You only get to do it once.
2007-03-07 07:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋