One of my friends asked me out. I was talking to him one night and out of the blue he decides that he wants to take me out. He wants to do the whole shabang. Go out to eat, to the movies and then to hang out for a few hours. I'm not sure if I like him as much as he likes me. I mean, I kinda like him, and everyone should get a chance, but I'm not sure if I want to do the whole one on one thing or even go out with him. What should I do. Forever trusting!
2007-03-07 06:36:14 · 6 answers · asked by I heart UNC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are usually two sides to this answer.Some people will say give him a chance and some will say if you do not feel it then it won't happen.Only you know yourself but personally i belong to the second group.If i don't feel the initial chemistry then i think it won't happen.
Let's put it another way.If you have to ponder it rather then it being automatic then it is something that goes against your nature.I say if you are still unsure a few weeks down the road then take a moderate approach.Hang out but not in a date situation.Besides there is too much pressure and expectation on a first date.Ease into it and perhaps get to know him more.Who knows you may actually like him.
Above all else make sure you have fun.
2007-03-07 06:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by tylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out thats eat why not
2007-03-07 14:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that i don't want to mess up my friendship..That you don't want anything bad to happen after we break up... Inless you like him then go for it.
2007-03-07 14:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ashly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kinda cant tell right now if you don't like him then just tell him but do it easy.
2007-03-07 14:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by mcwhiteboy6775 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him and see how it goes......
2007-03-07 14:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a doubt then don't do it.
2007-03-07 14:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋