2007-03-07 06:35:37 · 11 answers · asked by omer s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her. she may love someone else but more than likely like most girls she will have some feeling for you stored deep down in herself. plus if you tell her you will feel better about everything.
2007-03-07 06:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Baby D~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your situation and I know how difficult it is. Take my advice as it is derived from hard experience. I did tell her that I loved her and it did no good. It only made matters worse. I had many nights wondering how different things might have been had I not told her how I felt, but it was too late. The best thing you can do is to keep it to yourself and get on with your life. Time does heal all wounds and yours will heal, too. You cannot guide Love's directions for Love will guide yours when the time is right with the right person. So keep a stiff upper lip and live on. In so far as she is concerned, you are history that never happened.
2007-03-07 06:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she's married, you shouldn't tell her because that's playing with fire, but if you're really close with this girl and she's not in a position where it would not only hurt a marriage or kids(if there are some involved), you should tell her because even if she doesn't leave the guy she loves to be with you, at least you have the satisfaction of knowing that you told her and you wouldn't have to wonder if you told her what could have happened. I know that probably doesn't sound too great because you don't want her to reject you, but like I said, at least you won't wonder.
2007-03-07 07:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing about it. you walk away and find someone else. Because she is already in a relationship with another. That would be rude and disrespectful on your behalf... Just leave it alone.
2007-03-07 06:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by adapttowhatis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probably better you don't if she is going out with someone else but if she just facies them then get in there. Try doing something brave to show her. Talk to her friends and find out if she is interested. If she likes you she will go for you. If she doesn't then she won't.
2007-03-07 06:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you KNOW she is in love with someone else - dont even try. however, if you are not so sure - just be friendly and wait your turn. make compliments that are based on the truth and - WAIT!
2007-03-07 06:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by mausmiss2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a smart plan to tell her. Be her friend, wait till she isn't with the other guy, then if the time is right you will know. Until then, leave it be!!
2007-03-07 06:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't! Don't make things worse for either of you. Hey I like Barroom's suggestion. Email her!
Good Luck!
2007-03-07 06:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by kim_n_orlando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell her and make a fool out of yourself? It's time to walk away and make your own life.
2007-03-07 06:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz dont go there it ant gonna work she loves somebody else move on u can email me at barroom_babyblue@yahoo.com n we chat some more if u wanna
2007-03-07 06:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by barroom_babyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋