My friend and i were talkin earlier this year & we fell n love. We still are. But he started talkin 2 a girl-and i look WAY BETTER than her!!! I tried 2 keep us together but he chose her instead & now they go out. He isnt in love but he likes her. My birthday was on thursday and we made out (i didnt reach in!!) that day and the next but i didnt know they went out. Then on monday we made out again and i finally found that he has had a girl 4 about a week or two. He still texts me sayin that he loves me & that he misses me. Now i found out that his girlfriend went 2 the movies last weekend with my friends brother. And her brother fingered her and now they go out. Even though i love him, should i tell him that his girl is cheating? Or should i let karma come back 2 him??
2007-03-07 06:33:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know some good mental institutions that would be happy to take you!!
2007-03-07 06:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest this is a touchy subject. If you tell him then your getting yourself caught up in a big mix up that Im sure you really dont want to be in. If she is cheating then he would probably do best hearing it from someone else becasue Im not sure thats going to help with your chances with him. It might come off like an "I told you so" and you dont want that really. Just see how he is feeling about the relationship and just throw out there that he might want to watch out for his girl. But do it in a way where your not really giving him anything. Thats if you just want to tell him. Me personally I would just let him find out on his own. Also Im not so sure if he is in love with you or more love you like a friend. If he really loved you then he wouldnt be with the other girl. So I would just look over both of your relationship with each other. Okay I hope I was helpful.
2007-03-07 14:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by babi_gurl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself...karma...and well...it's gonna come back to you also...for being with him while he is with her.
By the way, whether or not you "look WAY BETTER than her" or not, doesn't really matter. My opinion, get out now. Drop him, her and the situation. It's a dead end. His relationship with her and you are already poisoned.
Find someone new, and start with a honest and fresh relationship.
2007-03-07 14:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by BrokenOpalAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This question is a little more than tacky! Is it cheating? Maybe? Should you tell him? He'll not respect you for that probably and could backfire on you. Why don't you move on to someone who treats you respectfully?
2007-03-07 14:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dude you should totally let the kharma come back. or if you do tell him, don't make out with him afterwords. If he supposedly loves you but only likes this girl, then don't feel bad for him at all.
2007-03-07 14:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did I think you'd be doing that to get him back to you, and I really think this is someone that will hurt you and everyone around him and your best to do would be to cut him out of your life and stay well away.xxxx
2007-03-07 14:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try to tell him. even though he loves you and trusts you he probably won't believe you. just keep telling him and eventually he will find out and he will appolegize to you and you to can be together for ever!
2007-03-07 14:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by taralynXXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all should get into the group orgy scene. That way you all know what's going on.
2007-03-07 14:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a LOSER! Walk away from him find you someone who is the 'right' one for you and not into games!! I wish you luck
2007-03-07 14:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let Karma get him, but thats jus me...
2007-03-07 14:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ashly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋