When i'm 16 1/2 and hes 19.
2007-03-07 06:31:19 · 24 answers · asked by Ashly D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
run away...they cant legally make you go back home after you turn 16...atleast thats the law here in NY
2007-03-07 06:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by j c 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Move on, look kids never listen to their parents. The fact is you will probably go behind there backs and try to see him, and this will lead you into an early marriage or an early pregnancy. Which in the long run will ruin your future. The fact is you are 16 and most relationships at that age will not last. Cut your loses, and move on. If your parents don't want you seeing him there is probably a good reason, other than just his age.
2007-03-07 15:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame your parents at all. This man is an adult and you are a minor child. You have no business dating each other.
You need to pay attention to your school work and get a good education. The words are PARENTS not parnets, and FORBID (current tense) or FORBADE (past tense) not forbided.
2007-03-07 15:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to them. It's not worth the fighting and hurt feelings incurred by disobeying your parents. This guy will not be around in 2-3 years but your parents will be there for you as long as they are alive. It's better to have them trust you rather than question your every move. If you think they're not that smart...think again.
2007-03-07 14:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Randall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just looking out for your best interests, honey. If you really want to be with him, you need to convince your parents that you are mature enough to handle yourself with him, and that he is a good guy that respects your boundaries. Technically, any sexual activity between you would count as statutory, molestion, etc., so for both your sakes you need to prove you can refrain from this.
Ask you parents to meet this guy and get to know him. Suggest you all go out to dinner together this weekend. Encourage your parents to meet his parents. Compromise: set up an agreement with your parents about what sort of behavior is permissible between you and him, and stick to it.
If you can't handle this sort of mature discussion, then you're not ready to be with an older man.
2007-03-07 14:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your parents. They can send your boyfriend to jail and get him registered as a sex offender, depending on what state you live in so if you care about your BF, then stay away! You are more trouble to him than he is to you. Serious stuff, not just kidding around. If you're parents are anything like me, they've already threatened your boyfriend and his parents as to the consequences for them of something bad happening.
2007-03-07 14:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't blame them first of all u don't have no business with a boyfriend now anyway you are to young and hes to old you have a future ahead of you I'm quite sure you are in school finish school go to college do you both have jobs accidentally you get pregnant then what your mother and father will be responsible for your child then you will have to drop out of school take care a newborn baby which is no joke very hard so i think you need to consider your parents choice
2007-03-07 14:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by ikeysha r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS !!
I know you might think you are in love, but believe me.. You're Not ! He is older than you. You are still in H.S. and he is playing you since he knows you are younger and some what ignorant about the whole relationship thingy. I am sure all he wants to do is fool around with you and make you give it up, just by pretending to be sweet and loving all the time. Don't fall for it ! It's bull.
2007-03-07 14:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Life Is Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him anytime you have to sneak or lie it doesn't work so listen to your parents there will be other guys leave him alone, in a long run you will look back and be like its a good thing I left him alone, parents can spot someone no good for there child a state away
2007-03-07 14:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the last thing you want to do but, break it off with him and move on. Nothing will change your parents mind. NOTHING. Your still young and will meet many guys that your parents will end up liking. You need your parents more than you need your boyfriend.
2007-03-07 14:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents if he is allowed to come to your home where they can chaperone things. they might be more lenient when they see what a great guy he is. i really think that you are still too young to date a 19 y/o myself, but the age difference will be nothing when your 18.
2007-03-07 14:34:46 · answer #11 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋