I am a mom of 2. My daughter is 14 and my son is 9. When my daughter was younger she loved school and was a pretty good student getting mostly A's and a few B's. When my son started school it was obvious to his teachers that he was well ahead of other students his age. When he hit 2nd grade they started talking about him being in the gifted and talented program and my daughter started to have problems at about the same time. In 3rd grade he was placed in the gifted program and started doing the same grade level work his sister was doing and it seemed like she started to just give up on school. Since that time her grades have really slipped to B's, C's, and D's. When we ask her about her grades she says she is stupid or that she isn't smart like her brother. Now for my question, what can I do to help her realize her potential? I tell her all the time how proud I am of her and that she is so smart she can do anything if she puts her mind to it but it doesn' help. Any suggestions?
2007-03-07
06:26:24
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My daughter has always been tall for her age and my son is very small for his age and sometimes she bullies her brother. I want them to get along and have a close relationship but I am afraid that she really resents her brother because school is so easy for him and she has to really push herself just to get passing grades.
2007-03-07
06:29:31 ·
update #1
They both play sports and I point out to her that sports are easy for her due to natural ability and her size and that her brother really has to work hard at all his sports, but then he gets chosen for all start teams and other special teams and that all goes right out the window.
2007-03-07
06:37:44 ·
update #2