now she's holding back any after hours fun til I agree with her...do I outsource her services til she agrees with me?
2007-03-07 06:21:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even though a woman should not use sex as a tool to get what she wants u should not cheat on her til you get your way either.
compermise, either do both or have her decorate one room and you do a room.
2007-03-07 06:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a bit childish. Is she going to do this over everything she doesn't get her way with?
Get both. My friend has nice blinds and drapes also. The drapes are drawn back all of the time, and she pulls the blinds open during the day and closed at night. The drapes are more decorative.
2007-03-07 14:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by lilith663 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd giver her the drapes. If your wife/gf wants to play homemaker... then by all means let her do her thing.
When I was single I didn't even buy good furniture, because I knew nomatter how nice it was, it was going to be thrown out whenever I had a move-in gf or got married. I had cinder blocks for a bookshelf and canvas lawn chairs in the living room... After I got married we (she) went shopping to decorate my (our) place. We shared the responsibility... she decorated and I supplied the cash. She had a blast! Why take away her fun? If this is the type of thing you're going to argue over... then it will get a lot worse in the future.
I have no problem letting the woman decorate the house.
2007-03-07 14:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a dangerous game she's playing. Hopefully she will come to her senses, and realize she's an idiot for withholding sex for curtains. Anyway, my house came with 2" white wood blinds throughout. In some rooms, I added curtains, in others, I did not. It looks great, and my sex life didn't have to suffer over it. Good luck.
2007-03-07 14:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put both on the windows and this way you both get what you want and they look great together as well. Just make sure it is tastefully done and match the colors perfectly.
2007-03-07 14:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Half drapes half blinds.
2007-03-07 15:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both being silly Put up both, like normal people do.
Good Luck :-)
2007-03-07 14:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So get both! What it the big deal, they will look nice together!
2007-03-07 14:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to compromise?
2007-03-07 14:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST OF THE TIME IT IS THE WOMAN THAT WILL GET HER WAY. I WOULD NOT TRY TO HOLD OUT BECAUSE WOMEN CAN HOLD OUT ALOT LONGER. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-07 14:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋