she does me a favor every time we have to go there but it bothers me sooo much and i dont know ehat to do anymore and we are married for 2 years already how can i get her to like them or atleest make her self?
2007-03-07 05:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by molly d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think you should try too hard to make your wife like your family. It might make her dislike them even more if she feels that she is being forced to feel something for them that she really doesn't. As long as she respects them it should be enough. I'm not too hot on my husband's family either, but he understands this and is okay with it because I don't show his family how I really feel. I hang out with them when I have to or whenever I can, and I don't get into the mix of their problems. It's better that way.
2007-03-07 05:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant control who your wife does or does not like. What about your family? have they made her feel as if shes part of the family, or is she just your wife so they put up with her being around? If she doesnt get along with your family, then she can start stayin home when you go to visit and miss out on that time with you.
2007-03-07 13:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she not like your family? Maybe you should start there. If they are rude to her maybe you could try standing up to them for her. I had a friend get divorced last year after 7 years because her in laws were always degrating her. Start at the root of the problem and work from there.
2007-03-07 14:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by busygoddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your wife not like your family? You say that you understand but did not explain it to us. You can not make someone like someone else. You need to explore the reasons your wife and your family do not get along and then come up with a way to try to fix it.
You may have to choose, your wife or your family. If your family is disrespecting your wife then you need to put your foot down. Your wife should come first.
2007-03-07 13:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone like someone unless they want to . if you know the reasons that your wife doesn't like your family and understand why .well hate to say this ,but she's not the one with the problem. you can't change your family and you can't change your wife ,but it's hard two have best of both worlds. maybe if you just hang tuff you two will get past this trust me.
2007-03-07 14:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her like them, just as long as she is respectful to them then you just need to accept the fact that she just doesn't like them, or maybe try asking her why she has a problem with them.
2007-03-07 13:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Karrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE QUESTION IS WHY DOES SHE NOT LIKE THEM. ARE THEY MEAN TO HER OR WHAT ?? DO THEY LIKE HER?? SHE MIGHT HAVE A GOOD REASON FOR NOT LIKING THEM. IF SHE GOES OVER THERE AND IS NICE TO THEM BECAUSE OF YOU. THAT SHOULD BE ENOUGH. DON'T TRY TO PUSH HER INTO LIKING YOUR FAMILY. IT WILL ONLY MAKE HER NOT LIKE THEM EVEN MORE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-07 13:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have they done something to her that is unforgiveable. If she goes to visit them with you be happy with that
2007-03-07 14:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* You can't *
2007-03-07 13:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋