Okay, this all happened yesterday, we had gotten into an argument. I wanted to fix it and have everything back to normal. So we talked over the phone when he started to say I had lied to him, when I never lied to him because I like him a lot. Then he said he couldn't trust me anymore, because I had lied to him about something that is personal to both of us. I started to cry because I didn't know why he was calling me a liar, soo the next morning I ask my mom what had happened with that story she told me about him, It happen to be that I misunderstood everything and swicthed it around. But I didn't lie to him, it was just a simple misunderstanding. But now I don't know how to fix the problem? and how to gain his friendship and his trust again? I need help! Please...
2007-03-07 05:26:47 · 6 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to your friend and let him know that there was a misunderstanding about the situation. You thought that it was one thing, but it turns out that there was some kind of confusion. Let him know that you did not lie to him and that is something that you would never, ever do to him. Reassure him that you will do whatever it takes to gain his trust back and have the kind of friendship that you guys had before. Things have their way of working themselves out. If he was the kind of person that will listen to what you have to say, he'll understand and give you the opportunity to fix what happened. If not, at least you know who your true friend is. I hope my advice helps you and good luck, sweetheart.
2007-03-07 06:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to talk to him face to face because people tend to get the wrong message over the phone. And dont ever cry over a male. Most of em dont care. But i think you should talk to him face to face when you guys have time. It might be hard to gain his trust back though!
2007-03-07 06:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by *GeOrGiA*cHiK* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you really want to work things out with him and everybody is not perfect because everyone lie or make a mistake but i promise you i'm not going to lie to you anymore if you are willing to give it a try but if not we can try to talk things out on the phone or we can e-mail each other untill we works things out with each other because everyone make mistake in there relationship and everyone is not perfect so can you please forgive me and tell him you promise you is not going to lie to him anymore good luck and i hope that y'all could work things out in y'all relationship because y'all sound like a really nice couple and i think he should forgive you because no one is perfect that's why God create us because we all mistakes and we learn from them and i hope he sees that because you really sound like a nice person.
2007-03-07 05:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him face to face and not over the phone. try to control your crying so that you guys can talk and really explain everything to him from the beginning. wait until he cools down. but definitly talk to him.
2007-03-07 05:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he is your friend he,ll be back
and us guys get mad easy he will get over it
2007-03-07 06:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Stephen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give time!!!
2007-03-07 05:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋