She is 31 years old and has never had a orgasm. She had several sexual partner but no one has made her reach her peak
2007-03-07 05:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by cmo701 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2007-03-07 05:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by grasshopper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is something she needs to figure out for herself. Only she will be able to discover what makes her get off. She might try some sexual therapy research, masturbation with toys designed to help that, perhaps even going to see a sexual therapist. Sometimes sexual problems stem from mental blocks. Trauma even. Many assault (or worse) victims cannot have an orgasm. She should take a look at the problem subjectively and consider the best course of action. But in the end, if it doesn't happen, its not the end of the world. Many women don't get off with a man. Has been like that since the dawn of mankind.
2007-03-07 05:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by DanniGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a weird question, but does she feel like she needs to pee during sex? If so, she is in luck (if not, then this won't help her)
This is a serious problem for women, who far too often confuse an approaching orgasm for the pee sensation. But the good news is that if she goes with the feeling she will almost certainly have an orgasm without peeing. She can try it by herself to see if it works, perhaps in a bathtub to be on the safe side.
2007-03-07 18:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by quizzical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she need to see a sexual therapist to rule out the possibility of orgasm disorder known as anorgasmia.
2007-03-07 05:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Eric H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kegel exercises might help.
What is her personal philosophy toward sex? If she has some hangups than that might be the reasons.
Stores like Toys in Babeland also have classes for that type of thing.
2007-03-07 05:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how comfortable is she with touching herself? if she is tell her to lie on a bed with her eyes closed and imagine that her hands are the person and remember what it is that made her feel good, then the next time she is with that person,tell her to describe what is was or better yet show him what it was that made her feel good.
2007-03-07 05:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by brown eyed girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep rubbing her private parts, kissig on the back of the neck and press her nipples.
once she breathes heavily, then you can start.
all the best
2007-03-07 09:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by sheikh p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that had they same problem. Her OB/GYN examined her and said she wasn't capable of it because of they way her insided were. So she may not be able to.
2007-03-07 05:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess that depends on how good of friends you are.
2007-03-07 05:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i quess your just going to show them how it's done.
2007-03-07 05:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by chedderapples 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋