Any recommendations that might make an uncomfortable situation run a little smoother?
2007-03-07 05:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by krystal c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pack all his things and leave them in a certain place, the garage or front room. etc. Ask a family member or friend to be there when he picks his things up. If you feel it necessary to have a policeman there do not hestiate to call one.
2007-03-07 05:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY if it is an already volitile situation to begin with would I personally get the police involved.
Pack up his stuff, sit it in the living room, have a friend or someone that is a NEUTRAL party for BOTH of you be there.
2007-03-07 05:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way i can tell you is to have someone else there to make sure that nothing is said or done that you are not comfortable with. I always make sure that someone else is there when I go to pick up stuff from my ex husband's place.
2007-03-07 09:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by lz_adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have lit the fuse on a canister of dynamite and he has 10 minutes to show up with a truck. No discomfort and the job gets dont quick!
2007-03-07 05:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be there, have another family member or friend at your house. Ask your local police to stand by and be present while your X is getting his belongings.
2007-03-07 05:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know anyone who is a friend/neighbor and a cop, have them over.
You can also say that you want him to have a cop escort.
If you dont want to involve cops, have a mutual friend, or just a friend of yours there to ease the tension.
Try to have all his stuff together so its easy for him to get it.
2007-03-07 05:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how much stuff he has... with my ex, i fit everything into a shoe box and mailed it COD... he later told me he was afraid to open it... you know, shoe box...in the mail... LOL.... if it's too much to fit into a box, a police escort, or pile the stuff outside and tell him to be there at a certain time, or everything will go to good will...
2007-03-07 06:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by This is what I think 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a off duty police officer bring him after his stuff
2007-03-07 05:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a friend there to let him in someone he knows and you trust
2007-03-07 05:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by baseballlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a police escort is the best way.
2007-03-07 05:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Maddie and Jacobs mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋