My wife and I have talked about divorce. The weekend after discussing it in January, I learned that my wife posted personal ads on Match.com and Yahoo Personals. She stated in the ads that she was separated, which is entirely untrue. We still live together and have not discussed divorce since then. And her personal ads are still posted. Does this sound like a woman that is interested in keeping her marriage intact?
2007-03-07 04:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by Tex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How would anyone here know what your wife is thinking?
Why don't you ask her whether she's interested in keeping the marriage intact? And why don't you tell her what you think about it too?
2007-03-07 05:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Craig H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like a women who wants to go have sex with someone else. She wants the separation for she can be with other guys. And your wasting your time. If you don't divorce in just stay separated she going to want to come back. Right now she is just bored. Don't be a fool and let her use you. If this is want she wants after you did everything you can do to keep your marriage and there's nothing you can do know more, move on. Why are putting yourself down. Are there kids involve? I hope you the best of time. Things are hard at first but sometime down the road they get better. You just might like single life. It's fun. It can get lonely too, but over all it's OK.
2007-03-07 13:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your wife is wanting out of the marriage with your blessings. She thinks that by talking to you about and you agreeing with her, that she is free to go and do whatever she wants now. You need to confront her and ask her the BIG question. Which is....do you want a divorce. If she says no, then find out why she is seeking other relationships if she is so happy with you. Life is too short to live life like this. I hope you can work things out, if not ask her to leave and them post YOUR personal ads for someone that really does care.
2007-03-07 13:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by txflower62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this does not sound like she still wants the marriage at all. Talk to her and tell her what you are still finding and seeing online and see what she has to say about it. Ask her if she still wants the marriage or not. Ask her why she is saying she is seperated from you when she is not. You need to find all of this out from her as i cannot give you the answers here.
2007-03-07 13:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted to keep her marriage intact, she never would of posted those ads in the first place.
2007-03-07 13:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is already looking around.If you've talked about divorce then something is not right in your marriage. Better talk again and see where she stands.See if she is willing to work out your problems. Good Luck.
2007-03-07 13:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by prettywoman_eks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not sound like she wants to keep her marriage intact. those internet sites are the reason why my ex husband and i got a divorce. i think that chatting on the internet sexually and visiting porn sites is cheating and i cannot stand it. you need to confront her with this. if she wanted to work it out she would not have done that.
2007-03-07 13:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie and Jacobs mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't to me if she wanted to keep her marrige she wouldn't get on match.com or yahoo personals
2007-03-07 12:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's looking to replace you before she actually splits.
2007-03-07 12:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want to know how you know this. and she may have just forgot to unpost them. tell her that she needs to take them off and if she doesn't then there's a problem.
2007-03-07 12:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋