You always hear about a woman going out with a married man and insisting that he break up with her to marry her(the other woman).
Baby, if he did it to her, he’s gonna do it to you!
People never learn this lesson!
Why?
2007-03-07 04:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by jacobimmugatu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the other woman thinks she is special and above what his wife is, thinks she is better, and he will not do it to her. somehow if u ask him what caused his breakup with his wife, u tell yourself that can't happen with u and him, u see yourself as different, but u never heard her side of it. and if he will cheat on her he will cheat on u. he will find fault with u the same as he did with her. he will do the same thing to u as he did to her, eventually, just a matter of time.i was not a cheater but married a man who had three previous wives before me, he always did the same thing, found the same kinds of faults, always left leaving the spouse in financial debt and with problems. always remember there are always two sides to the story, and that one day u will be no more special to him than the one he is leaving.
2007-03-07 05:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind it is not always the woman being naive and stupid, a lot of times the man will act like he's on the verge of a divorce or act like he doesn't love his wife and WANTS to marry the other woman, he just keeps stringing her along knowing full well he's never going to leave.
On the other hand, as someone else said, some people don't mind being the other woman and are only thinking about themselves.
2007-03-07 05:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Vivita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with low self esteem. They think this is the only man they can get. Then if he does cheat, alot of them stay because they think they can't get any better. It's a never ending cycle until they realize they are better than what they are getting. I wasn't with a married guy, but I took one back when I was alot younger 4 times when he cheated. I know it was low self esteem, believed I deserved it. I know better now, I learned alot in that relationship. But it takes time for some people to break that cycle whether they are male or female.
2007-03-07 05:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women want that, when they are sleeping with a married man. My husband cheated on me and I had the unfortunate experience of actually talking to his whore on the phone. She was a cruel heartless b*tch. She flat out told me she liked him, but knew it was just sex, she knew he was never gonna leave me for her, and that she was bored and not with anyone at the time, so figured what the h*ll, I'll have an affair with a married man for something different. I told her that my husband told me that he was considering leaving me for her, and she laughed at him. She said, "now that woulda been stupid on his part, cuz i didnt look at him like that, we were friends with benefits who liked to party together, and that if he woulda left his wife, he not only woulda been out of a wife, but also out of a gf, too". She was nothing but a white trash whore. So, not all women want the whole package, oh, or maybe just the whole package between the legs...lol!
2007-03-07 05:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because these people are scandelous and selfish. They give no thought to the fact that they are ruining peoples lives, and are causing pain and anger. They also don't realize that eventually everything comes back around, and always with a greater impact, it's called karma. How you start something is how it will end.
2007-03-07 05:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by BrokenOpalAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are not dumb they want to truly belive THEY are different and that relationship is special. Its may be a sign of insecurity with themselves but I dont think anybody goes into a thing like that clear headed. Theres usually mixed signs and false promises...
2007-03-07 04:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by baseballlover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously those women have no morals in the first place or they would not be involved with a married man
2007-03-07 05:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like this, some actually like and will except being the other woman.
2007-03-07 05:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
Anyone who cheats is on a road that will only lead to bad news.
2007-03-07 06:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Diego J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea some are stupid about it. I caught my husband now, he thought I was stupid, I have been around computers for years, he did not realise you could track IP address or e mail. or KEY LOGGER But
It has taught me a big lesson in life and it ruined the trust for LIFE
2007-03-07 05:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋