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Tell me something, women...

Do you consider a woman who accepts that her husband commits perverse sexual acts and cheats on her with younger women, and she overlooks it (staying married to him but has no small children to worry about), an example of how women should be? A role model for women? Yes or no? Why?

2007-03-07 04:48:04 · 15 answers · asked by DanniGirl 2 in Social Science Gender Studies

15 answers

1. If at first you DO succeed, try not to look astonished!

2. Accidents don't just happen. They must be carelessly planned.

3. If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.

4. Revenge has no more quenching effect on emotions than salt water has on thirst.

5. If someone annoys you, it takes 42 muscles to frown, but it only takes 4 muscles to extend your arm and whack them in the head.

6. Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.

7. Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

8. The act of giving is more important than the merit of the receiver.

9. The early worm gets eaten by the bird, so sleep late.

10. If you put your nose to the grindstone, you'll get a flat face.

11. Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue.

12. Take it easy, and if you get it easy take it twice.

13. Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. Ambrose Bierce

14. Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.

15. Never say 'OOPS!' Always say 'Ah, Interesting!'

16. You never really learn to swear until you learn to drive.

17. The sooner you fall behind, the more time you'll have to catch up.

18. Life is full of surprises. Don't insist on everything being predictable.

19. A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.

20. Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way you're a mile away, and you have their shoes too.

21. People are illogical, inconsiderate and self-centred. Love them anyway.

Hope answered your question, if you are a good reader between the lines.

2007-03-07 09:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Qutub 7 · 2 1

no. that woman is being used and walked on, and perpetuating that sort of treatment for women, not to mention all the other women that the husband is using which the wife is condoning. even in the days that divorce was severely frowned on (or worse) infidelity was considered a legitamate reason for divorce. she should not be held to her marriage vows since he is not holding to his.

(and that statement would hold true if the genders were switched, btw) no person should stay in a marriage like that. personally, i think if one person cheats once then the relationship is already dead (imho) but i can see if it ONLY happens once that it could be forgiven by some. multiple and long term cheating should not be overlooked, as those people are no longer fully dedicated to the marriage.

2007-03-07 04:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

Hilary Clinton???

I admire her fortitude to stay married. Marriage is a sacrement that is holy. However, I disrespect Former First Lady Hilary Clinton for not commiting her husband to a psycho ward for treatment. Alas, historically, men were infamous for locking up their wives --- but since we're the 'weaker sex' we're taught to run instead of get help for the man we made vows to love.

Certainly, "Running" is appropriate for many circumstances like wife-beating, and if they damage is too much for her. However, socially, I belive "Divorce" is used too often. Imagine a society where the wife could get mental institutional help for her sex-manniac husband. This is an addiction which is as powerful as cocaine to a few men. So, if we loved them and loved society, we could cure them. Sadly, there really isn't programs for them like "Betty Ford" and "Jail" is the primary place ... which this usually causes the men to behave worse. When sex addict gets rapped he then is in a deeper power struggle which is fueld by being violated.

2007-03-07 09:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0 0

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2016-09-30 08:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by celia 4 · 0 0

Definately Not! We are no doormats that you can wipe your feet on. I'm really sorry, but I find women who stay in relationships like that weak, because they are too afraid to make their own decisions. But we need to support these women so that they are able to stand on their own two feet and get out of there.

2007-03-07 05:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no. BY her actions she did nothing that would help him to break that habit. she opened herself to std's and she set in process an attitude that she would be unwilling to change things that needed changing. What else does she ignore or choose not to combat? Does she leave everything as "just the way they are" and not fight for what is right? someone who turns a blind eye to moral depravity is not one who would willingly to stand against moral depravity. Granting grace, if it were a lapse in judgment once or even twice and a repentant husband returned and attempted to change the situation through intensive counseling and changes in lifestyle etc... But to continue that behavior year after year??? No way-- I wouldn't follow her

2007-03-07 05:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

No, it sounds like your talking about Hilary Clinton. however no matter who it is that you are talking about it is no example to set for young women, I have two daughters and I plan on raising them to be strong women not weak back boned women that are looking for or are concerned about position and power. We deserve the best of our husbands a man who stands beside us,respects us and we should not expect less

2007-03-07 05:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

such women are likely to be scared of a broken marriage or sacred that what her parents, relatives and other people are gonna think or she loves her husband so much that she could forgive everything he does. but i dont think of her as a role model

2007-03-07 07:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by khushi j 2 · 1 0

Not a role model at all! Dump the freak guy!
She is letting him walk all over her- thats not a good role modelf or anyone.

2007-03-07 05:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by kermit 6 · 2 1

Surely not. This is model for slow suicide or mad-going with total loss of self-esteem. Woman should have her dignity - if not, no man will respect her really.

2007-03-07 05:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by zuska m 2 · 2 0

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