I also keep dreaming about him and his new girlfriend too...
Can i be over him, and still look back and feel bad?
2007-03-07 04:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes but you are remembering an old emotion that may have been false and mixing it with a new idea of him although he has changed and you are not close to him now. You miss the emotion you had at one time when you were together. You don't miss the person.
All is perception and we women perceive many things about men that do not warrant our concern or interest. You can let go of the connection between him and the emotion you desire and find it with another man. He is no longer the person you thought he was. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-03-07 04:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really over him, you'll not feel bad about what you don't have, but rather grateful that you've had what you have had.
Perhaps you've not given yourself enough time to contend with your emotions, or something else has recently come up that makes you think of him. It would be good to revisit your feelings for him and understand why they are the way they are.
2007-03-07 12:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel lonely and that is why you feel sad and you keep on going back with your memory to those time with him. Try to go out and socialize a bit more, you might find a good man while having fun with your friends.
2007-03-07 12:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by remy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to decide to move forward with you're life.
Once you decide to hold you're head up and walk forward instead of backwards you will see things a lot differently.
2007-03-07 12:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're too clingy
2007-03-07 12:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Toona Salid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋