Fell madly in love with this guy, but am mature enough to wait to let him take the first moves. He said he loved me, slept with me..then told me to back off. I did. He pursued, I let him, relationship progressed, he moved in with me...asked me to marry him. Planning our wedding, then we get into a fight & he said all sorts of nasty things about my past & me. Afterward, I asked if that was truly the way he felt about me, he said yes. I broke engagment off. He asked for another chance...he said I "pushed" him into marrying me. I feel crazy! Help!
2007-03-07 04:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Scary. He told you that he loved you and then told you to back off???
He has serious issues - walk away and pawn the ring. You'll be better off.
As sad as you may feel at this moment - be glad that you didn't marry him! There is a guy out there that wouldn't ever push you away!
2007-03-07 04:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into consistently introduced approximately have self belief that the engagement ring is a present. this is polite and the properly suited factor to do to return the present or ring if the girl is breaking the engagement. in spite of if, if the guy changes his ideas (with out merely and valid reason), then the girl could save the hoop. This, of direction, could nor practice if the girl had carried out something to reason the wreck-up.
2016-12-14 13:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl! he is the crazy one!! NOT YOU!! Seems like he is immature and selfish and wants to put all the blame on you oh and also seems to me like he is a lil boy playing mind games~ let him go because it will get worse~ he is the one that asked you...you did not twist his arm into marrying you...he just wants to find someone to blame that all. Do not accept blame ...he is a big boy and he needs to take responsibility for yours and his relationship going sour..it takes 2 to marry and it takes 2 to break up . tell him what i am telling you and see what he says~
hope this helps~
2007-03-07 04:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically he told you he loved you and YOU SLEPT WITH HIM! okay he got what he wanted....then left.....Then again he comes back for more... a booty call and you give it up ..then he does it again only more ELABORATE and you fall for it again. And now he's feeling horny again and wants more!
Get rid of him he's got bipolar tendencies hahaha!
This is a good example of why people should not give it up so easily. But oh that's just so OLD FASHIONED! oh silly me. I forget people love the drama and illegitimate children.
2007-03-07 04:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't necessarily say walk away....RUN!!! this guy obviously doesn't have a clue as to what he wants...there are plenty of fish in the sea and he's one you should definitely toss.sounds like a bit of a control freak to me and that can only escalate to much more!!! he is trying to see how far HE can push you before you have had enough.i say enough is enough.tell him to take a hike and get off this emotional roller coaster before its too late!
2007-03-07 04:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by mrszyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give back the ring and get some counselling. Don't date for a while til you deal with some of your issues. Work on strengthening yourself.
2007-03-07 05:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you pushed him into marrying you. He only truly wanted sex. I would walk away while its still cheap to do so.
2007-03-07 04:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pushed him into marrying him, why does he want a second chance?? From what you've stated, i would not waste my time on him, he sounds like he does not know what he wants.
2007-03-07 04:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
100% fine ! It´s better now than later
2007-03-07 07:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by NLBNLB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋