WE are going through a divorce,but remain friends and we sleep together on occasion.
what should I do? its my fault we got divorced for being possesive but since our separation i have let go of any bad things i my life therapy ect.
im scared to tell her my true feelings that i love her still I want her back!
ladies what should i do? shes my friend and if she still sleeps with me it means something right??????? HELP!
2007-03-07 04:01:13 · 4 answers · asked by king kong 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
relize why u r going thru the divorce in the first place... its not good to still mess around with one another, it will only confuse you both and the situation. If its about sex then you both need to find yourselves sex buddies, cause this aint going to work like that... You both will always still care and have feelings, but obviously if you know you cant be together, you need to keep it at just friends, or try not going thru the divorce, and see what you can work with, before its too late
2007-03-07 04:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What it means is you definitely still have a physical attraction for each other, but you cannot base a relationship on physical alone. If she is still wanting the divorce to go through then she doen't love you enough to want a lifetime commitment and you cannot force another person to have that sort of feeling for you. If she wants to continue with this sort of relationship you currently have that is your choice to go on, but don't confuse hoping into bed with eternal feelings of love. That's how many of today's marriages start and end so abruptly. I would also be wary of continuing such behavior if you aren't the only person she is seeing(without using protection). Remember if she is doing the same thing with other men it would be no different than you going to bed with them too. You may not want to think about that, but it is happening a lot these days.
2007-03-07 12:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop sleeping together. It is emotional abuse and you need to get a handle on this.
Go your separate ways and stop dragging your feet.
If you are still in love with each other and want to be married then stop the divorce.
You can't play both sides, get off the fence.....
2007-03-07 12:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you are still going to have feelings for her. you married her because you loved her. and sometimes love takes along time to get rid of. when my parents split it was hard. but eleven years later i know that they still love each other and say so. the love is not what made yall split it was everything else
2007-03-07 12:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~ashley~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋