My friend just got divorced because she was very frutrated with her husband, he wanted her to be bisexual so he can have sex with different girls, she thought she was bi too and they did threesomes with different girls, but it finally destroyed her marriage, because of her jealousy, and turn straight again, do you think these girls turned bi because they're too eager to please the men in their live? Do you think men like her husband was using her low self-esteem to accept this? And why do lesbian turn straight but not gays? Like Anne Heche
2007-03-07 03:59:51 · 7 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Um.. mr or ms best, obviously you didn't read my question carefully, me and her don't have relationship, we'are just friends.
2007-03-07 04:18:03 · update #1
Threesomes are a popular idea among men. If I could have sex with two copies of my wife, that would be grand. That's not really possible though. She's also got no inclination to experiment with women. We've talked about threesomes in a general way, and agree that it is likely to doom a relationship.
If a guy is pushing his wife to do it, rather than her being equally interested, it will eventually mean divorce. No exceptions.
2007-03-07 05:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is "bi" and has been for longer then I've known her. We've actually had a few threesomes and 4sums, and I've never pushed her into doing it. I think it would be possible for men to push their wife into something like that, but if that's the case it's wrong and the woman must have a problem saying no. I think anyone could change their mind on the issue of orientation. I have no idea, but I assume it can't be the easiest thing in the world to be gay or lesbian.
2007-03-07 13:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Robert and Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not turn, Bi, Gay or Straight.
Those terms have to do with who a person finds sexually attractive, NOT who they sleep with.
A person may be able to deny their own attractions, but that doesn't mean they aren't there.
I am bi, my wife is straight. I wish my wife were bi too, not because I want threesomes with her (I could get that with a guy and her, assuming she was game), but because it would be nice if we also shared the same sexuality. Just because I wish it were true doesn't make her find women attractive, though.
2007-03-07 12:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one "turns" straight, bi or gay. Sexual orientation is inborn and cannot be changed. Neither is it a choice.
Please do not confuse sexual behavior or experimentation with orientation.
If someone was bi all along, eventually they come to this realization about themselves. They may be married to a man or a woman, or single. Same thing for being lesbian/gay all along, or straight.
I hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-03-07 12:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have a complicated lifestyles. Sound like committing adultery to me. Strongly not recommended. Bad for your luck.
2007-03-07 12:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You know, I could see a woman doing this to please her husband. And unfortunately, once she opened that door, her husband expected her to continue down that path.
2007-03-07 12:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Searcher 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
some females do this to please their man, some do it b/c its a fad (they think its kool) and others just like men and women
2007-03-07 12:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋