why it seem today in the world now that men who love sex and women are the attractive creatures
porn focuse on women not men ,veven ones who focuse on men are for gays
all media,magazines focuse on female body not male
all female singers and actresses have nude secens but males no
men look at women in streets and beaches but women no
men sticks to women in crowed buses and trams but women no ,they get angry
men have lots of fetishes as for women feet and panties and legs....etc but women no
if i we ask any woman they will try to cover the shortage of desire by saying women are emotional but men who fall in love faster and deeper , we who give flowers and gifts make poem...etc but women no
is sex important for women also or they just give it to man to gain love,security,money,kids,power,care?
2007-03-07 03:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I understand your point, but calm down! ... sounds kind of desperate about this issue. I am a woman, so, i hope my point of view helps you with this curiosity of you.
I am a woman, and I really love sex, and i need sex just as men do. I enjoy sex so much, that i would love to have it more often, besides, nowaday i've heard so much about how good it is for stress, and even as exercise, and it's good as it helps you to liberate endorfines, so i guess we, women should try to have it more often that we do.
The diference between men and women in this matter, i guess is that it is more dificult for us to stop thinking on daily problems to have sex, or to enjoy the sex.
Besides, lately women have been taking lots of more responsabilities than before, and this is completely psycological, but we use to put sex with lower priority than any other thing in our life.
About the porn, i guess it is natural, because men are more visual than women. For a women is not so important the good body or the clothing to be turned on, we feel so much more with touching, listenning and with something tender that with the look.
On the contrary for men is important the look of the woman, the clothes she wares, so, i guess that's why the core public for porn are men. Altougth some women can enjoy porn, i do like it sometimes!
About the fetishes, some women have some. But lots of us don't say it. Remember that we are just starting to see the sex as ludic, because historicaly women didn't enjoy sex, they had no rigth to do it.
Even now, there are people who truly believes that if a women enjoy sex, ask for sex, she is a whore.
I'm sure there are lots of women who do it, as you say, to gain love, security, money, kids, power. But you cannot make that kind of generalizations.
You can find out about someone in particular, when you meet a girl, and have a relation close enougth to ask about it, i hope you ask in order to have better sex, and to make it more stable.
2007-03-09 02:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Popocatepetl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need and love it more than men...However, I can see where your confussion comes from... You think that women need to be excited like you, that are men, when their mechanisms are different.
In addition to that, there are some taboos in society that prevent women from showing openly their sexual interests.
Unfortunately, and don't take this pesonally, women don't love and need sex from you, but that is because you are clueless. If you knew how to turn women on, you wouldn't have time to post essay long answers in Yahoo...
2007-03-09 03:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! but shhhh its a secret! Some women, expecially after having children have a drop in hormone levels and actually dont want sex anymore, or much. But definately not all!
2007-03-09 07:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mendi8a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need the feeling of need a bit more than men.
2007-03-07 15:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋