2007-03-07 03:17:46 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wonder why you ask if the cheating should be with a co-worker. Is this your doubt? Yes to cheat, the question is with whom?
Something amiss here.
Tell us. You are talking about a she co-worker or a he co-worker? The answer to your question may depends on it.
2007-03-07 03:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by diamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is about the STUPIDIST question I have ever heard. First of all if you are thinking of cheating you need to talk to your wife so she can fill the void that is causing you to want to cheat. If in your mind you feel that all is lost with your wife then get a divorce first. Do not put you or her through the hurt of cheating. That is something that you will have a hard time working through and then there will always be trust issues.
My final advice to you is that you think about all consequences of your actions and where your heart truely is. Best of luck, the decision is yours.
2007-03-07 03:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by ericandsamantha1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I.ve had low resistance to other women and gotten in a lot of trouble. Fortunately, my backers either have the morals of alley cats or I can do no wrong in their eyes. Usually, their eyes are on their WALLET prize. YOU ,however, will twist in the wind should you cheat. I also have a special arrangement with my wife. She throws things and fumes when OTHER people find out but ignores my philandering because I !) avoid offspring and 2) lie very well and 3) Reasons above. My minions are also very persuasive when dealing with "crackpot bimbos".
But you, my friend, have NO protection and will be at the mercy of gossips and should the triffling relationship fail...hell hath no fury...
2007-03-07 04:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bill C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First introduce the co-worker to your wife (seriously). A good way to get to know each other is to have her over for dinner. Then everything will be on the up and up and you won't have to explain a lot of things in the future.
2007-03-07 03:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok you said should you cheat on your wife with co-worker???? Well, have you talked to her about the plm about the marriage plm??? did you talk to her that you might have no feelings for her or things change??? Did your wife cheated on you??? if she did then No point to pay back to your wife... did you have plm try to talked to her about that she won't listen or something... If you haven't talk to her then you should... If she won't listen what you have to say to her how to solve the plm..
Then You should Divorce her and then move on... but questions is do you have Kids??? how old are they?? and How long have you been married??? and there alot of questions before I can give you the right answer... Cheat on your wife with your co worker not gonna solved any plm... it going to make it worst...
So step back and find out why made you want to cheat your wife and figure it out and then sit with your wife and explain to her why this marriage falling apart...
You know I Love my wife more than anything We have plm not sitting down and talk about it we been married for 9 years going on 10 years in oct 07.. we have 2 kids and 3rd due 3 weeks in march... So, We do love each other and yes we have up and down plm... but we work it out no matter what. and that how our marriage still standing and we don't feel like wow can't believe we will be married for 10 years nothing feel like we just got married....
So you should think about this... I know alot people agree with me or not... but you have to make that choice to work it out.. If not getting any where then maybe try counslin??? or if not then maybe you should end the marriage??? Cheating not going to solved anything... think twice before you do anything... thanks for your time reading this.
2007-03-07 03:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You big dick head hell no your wife will kill you and the co-worker so if you want to risk your life do cheat on her but if you want to live you better listen to me dumb ***! If you feel you have to cheat you should get a divorce
2007-03-07 03:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to cheat on your wife? And why in the world would you post a question about it over the internet? If you're seriously seeking an answer to that question....I think you should SERIOUSLY evaluate your marriage. And NO....I do NOT think you should cheat on your wife.
2007-03-07 03:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cheat on your wife with anybody. Why are you coming to us for permission to do something that you already know is wrong? If you can't remain faithful to your wife, do the honorable thing and get a divorce. There is never a good reason to betray marital trust.
2007-03-07 03:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. But your wife should definitely cheat on you with her co-worker.
2007-03-07 03:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kari R 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I hope you're really just kidding. An affair is bad enough, but with someone at work is even worse. If your wife ever finds out, it could very messy for the both of you. And lets say you don't even like this chick you're having the affair with and you want to break it off, could get even messier. (Think of that movie with Meryl Streep and Michael Douglas!) Stick to the golden rule my grandma taught me: "Dont sh*t where you eat at."
2007-03-07 03:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋