Im freakin about the bachelor party! Im pregnant.?

Question

We are getting married next month and I just found out Im pregnant.
My finaces bachelor party is next week and everytime I think of it I want to cry. I trust him but not his friends, the whole thing just makes me feel bad. I know he's attractted to me and loves me and wouldnt cheat. The thought of other naked women around him make sme sick. Am I being emotional, it wouldnt be so bad if my bachelorette was the same night, but I cant even drink on mine! Am I being hormonal or irrational?

Answer 1

I think bachelor/ette parties are a stupid tradition that needs to go. For the amount of anxiety that they cause, and the trouble and bad behavior that happens, they are not worth it. I see no practical value in them. Any major partying with the opposite sex should have been done before the engagement.

Answer 2

Maybe you should talk to him about it. Even if you do trust him, you shouldn't keep your feelings inside. Let him know that you trust him and how you feel. Even if it isn't to talk him out of it, it will make you feel better and let go of any ill feelings before or resent that may occur afterwards. May I suggest a Jack and Jill party if you are still uncomfortable. It is a good way to get people from your families and friends together before the big I do. Besides are more likely to score on gifts as well and it is usually a really good time. But that is just a side note.

Answer 3

If you trust him so much, why does the "thought of other naked women around him" make you sick? It's his bachelor party, he's just having some fun with his friends. are you gonna worry every time he goes out with his friends? And what does this all have to do with you being pregnant anyway?

Answer 4

I think you are possibly being a bit hormonal. Are you just all of a sudden feeling this way or is this how you have felt about bachelors parties from the get go (and if so, did you bother to share this with him a while ago?).

Answer 5

I think you're probably over reacting. I'm with you on not liking the idea of naked women around your man, but I wasn't about to give my husband crap for having a bachelor party. I trust him, end of story...plus, there's no way I want to be known as the insecure crazy woman who doesn't let her guy have a bachelor party. I mean, I wouldn't take it too well if he had told me I wasn't allowed to have a bachelorette party, so I extended him the same courtesy.

Answer 6

honestly i do NOT think that your over reacting. i am not a fan of bachelor party's and i think its sooo stupid for guys to think that its ok for them to have one. the idea of having a naked woman dancing in front of my man...god only knows what i would do to her and him. it has nothing to do with you trusting him....its the point that..ok fine you trust him but the other woman is tempting him. that's basically what another stripper does to the man...tempt him with her body into wanting her. now when i got married my husband did not have a bachelor party and neither did i. alot of crazy things happen at those partys and its not cool.
trust me and if anything ever happens there you are never going to know.
liquor+guys+STRIPPERS= A destroyed relationship!!

Answer 7

No wife to be wants some other woman's boobs crammed in her soon-to-be husband's face.

I was pregnant when my husband had HIS bachelor party, and I told him that if he came home with glitter and perfume all over his face, he was going to be circle jerking it for the next MONTH.

If you trust him, though, trust him fully. Yes, he's going to have naked women on him, and yes, he's going to probably come home drunker than a skunk.

He is, however, coming home to YOU.

I would call a few of your girlfriends to come over and have a movie night, or something, because after you're married and the baby gets here, you won't get opportunities to do that too often.

Let him have his bachelor party. It will be your turn soon.

Answer 8

Dont stress .. he loves you and he's marrying you! Congrats on the baby! i was 6mths pregnant at my wedding and hens night, all us girls just went out for a really nice dinner! I think it was bettter then actually being able to drink the main reasons you can remember what happend and you dont feel hung over in the morning .. Just make it clear to himm and his mates that you dont want a stripper or naked women around him .. how would he feel if naked guys were around you!

Answer 9

I hate when people say, "I trust him but not his friends". That's bull. You just don't trust him. If he's a real man he wouldn't be so easily influenced by his drunken, immature friends. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are so dumb anyway. Why do you even need one.

Answer 10

Take a attempt. if it comes out effective. tell ur mothers and fathers ASNAP! and please! dont get the morning after pill, and dont provide it up for adoption if u do ensue to be prego. it willl be puzzling in case you're... lol. duuurp!!... yet u made ur mattress, now u gotta lay in it. u is additionally freaked out, bcuz u in basic terms began entering into those products, so u could in basic terms be sketchy.. im 15.. the 1st time i did that, I FREAKED! and we used a condom... and it didnt destroy.. and that i knew.. yet i grew to become into nevertheless scared. Hahah. in basic terms get checked. if its negitive. then it particularly is going to be all sturdy.. get on some delivery administration, you dont want mothers and fathers permission to get on that. and be carefull once you do "it".. lol... i admire how u prolly already understand this... yet w.e..... heres some records. lmao......