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Question

my friend is beautiful than me but no one has tried to propose her. i am not that attractive but still many people has tried to propose me. what's the reason....

Answer 1

I can think of two reasons.

1) Your friend isn't really prettier than you -- you just have too low an opinion of yourself.

2) Your friend repels men somehow. Maybe it's by giving off a stuck-up vibe (whether or not she's actually stuck-up), maybe she gives the impression that she doesn't like guys (saying things like, "Men are pigs" a lot will do that). It's even possible that she's so beautiful and perfect that guys don't think they deserve her, so they go for the next best thing and ask her friend out (which does nothing for your self-esteem, I know). If any of these is the reason, your friend needs to be careful. Nice guys are put off by this stuff, but playahs see it as a challenge -- this is exactly the kind of thing that attracts men whose only goal is to "hit it and quit it."

As for you, how do you feel about your friend's situation? Are you sad for her because she doesn't get dates? Jealous because you think she's prettier? Feeling vindicated because the less-pretty girl seems to be winning in the dating contest? Any combination of the above? Seems to me there's a lot that you and your friend need to talk about. If you can get through it and not end up hating each other your friendship will be stronger for it.

Answer 2

Ok, you mean beautiful, physically? She might be a super model, but that doesnt mean she is going to get all the guys after her. There is also your inside beautiness, which I think thats what you have. It all has to do with your personality, your sense of humor, your attitude and things like that. The ugliest guy or girl can marry a princess or prince. And whats wrong with that? Nothing, cause this is real love, and real love comes from the inside, from the heart. Lets say, a hot girl looks for a hot guy, cause she only cares about the physical. Or viceversa, a guy looking for a hot girl. Now, if guys try to propose you instead of your friend, that means those guys are smart and they looked in your inside beautiness. Your friend can be the hottest girl, but if she exchanges no chemistry with guys, well there is something wrong with her inside beautiness.... Hope it helps

Answer 3

There could be plenty of reasons:

1> Probably you are nicer to them;
2> Probably you look hotter;
3> maybe you are the one who's fluanting;
4> Maybe you are outgoing;
5> Above all, guys usually propose whenever they feel they have some scope. Maybe they feel that they can take on over you quite easily.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 4

Just because someone is pretty doesn't mean that there is anything going on in with her personality. She may be a complete beee-otch. Or she may be painfully shy and seem standoffish to people even though she is really nice. But, I actually feel sorry for your friend because you seem to be gloating about multiple engagement proposals, liek she's some sort of freak who can't get guys. Guys don't make the woman. Come on, stick to one long-term relationship and quit leading people on.

Answer 5

Physical attraction is not the only attraction. In fact it is good behaviour which creates a better impression. Or makes one overall more attractive. Judge yourselves in the light of your behaviour with others.

Answer 6

Maybe the kind of person you are from the inside attracts people towards you

Answer 7

Looks aren't everything, Personality and Sense of Humor, and you Way of Looking At things would be a quicker way of getting adored by the opposite sex.

Answer 8

there can be many reason like for example NO OFEENCE but many people must be thinking & taking you granted for sex or time pass this maybe one reason .Or prolly you are richer then her
Another readon maybe probably you friend never told you da truth
There can b many reasons behind this

Answer 9

ALWAYS REMEMBER THE PROVERB "ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD".EVEN PETROLEUM IS NOT AS GLITTERING AS GOLD OR DIAMONDS BUT IS VALUABLE.LOOKS AREN'T EVERYHING .MAY BE YOUR PERSONALITY THAT IS THE WAY YOU EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS OR MAY BE YOUR WAY OF TALKING MAY BE PLEASING THAN YOUR FRIEND OR MAYBE ITS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE AND PEOPLE.YOU MAY THINK THIS LIFE A BETTER PLACE THAN HER OR MAYBE ITS SOMETHING ELSE.WHATEVER THE REASON MAYBE YOU ARE A GIRL WHO IS PLAYING LUCKY.(JUST SIMPLY ASK THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE PROPOSED TO YOU WHY THEY FIND YOU MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN HER).

Answer 10

your personality counts for much more than you think it does! You are probably a down to earth kinda girl and she may appear to be high maintenance. Unless they want a trophy wife, guys will go for the girl with personality.