You are used to, will you stretch? or build a tolerance for it? i had a little bleeding & it was kind of painful in certain positions. But I havent had sex in 7 months & I would also attribute that to him being so big.
So will I get used to it?
2007-03-07 02:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by MANDEE 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Oh i guess I should specify that the pain is umm in my gut, like the dang thing is gonna pop right through! lol
2007-03-07 02:47:28 · update #1
Sounds like he is hitting your cervix.
2007-03-07 02:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your vaginal depth is just a bit less than the length of his penis and he's hitting your cervix. If he's all the way in when you feel full, then you're probably fine. You'll eventually get used to it. Unless you get bleeding for a long time each time you have sex, a little bleeding in the beginning should be OK. You might want to tell him to be gentle and not just shove all of him in so vigorously. He needs to be aware that he needs to be gentle and slow down. If you want, go on top so you can control how fast and how far he enters. Left up to an eager man at moment of passion, he's going to want to insert himself as deeply as he can since he can't feel your discomfort. It would be unfortunate if you end up yelling at him to stop or grinning to bear it. Either way, it kills the mood. As far as positions go, not all positions are created equal. Certain positions allows the man to penetrate deeper than others. Use the ones that feel better for you.
If he still has significant length left to push in when you feel full, then you have a problem. This is when men learn that porno star sized penis is actually NOT good. I've never been in that situation so I don't even know what to tell you.
2007-03-07 05:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by jorelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is abnormally large, your body will adjust to it with time, the vagina is meant to stretch. Try using some water based lube during intercourse, and stick to positions that are less painful until you're used to it.
2007-03-07 02:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by kerri c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get used to it, and itll be great
then if u dont have sex for a few months itll shrink back to tighter again..
2007-03-07 02:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you met my ex hubby, brian...lol. youll get used to it quickly, just relax at penetration. i dont know if you get streched out, but i know no man later will be satisfying.
2007-03-07 02:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just bragging.
2007-03-07 02:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋