How would you a explain a female who is very flirtatious with many men and also lies about things ?

Question

Please explain this personality type.

A female who flirts very much with you, but then you find out that she has many "friends" tagging along with her at the same time , and you thought you were the only one , and then she lies about things to try and cover up, but still tries to get you to tag along ?
Serious question what is wrong with this person?

WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER SUBCONCIOUS ??

WHICH NEEDS ARE NOT BEING MET??

IS THIS SELF CENTERED NARCISSISM?

SHE DOESNT JUST LIE, I THINK SHE JUST FORGETS WHAT SHE LAST TOLD ME WAS THE TRUTH BECAUSE SHE HAS SO MANY TAG ALONG "FRIENDS" SHE IS FLIRTING WITH

AND I DONT KNOW IF SHE TAKES ANY OF THEM REALLY SERIOUS, MAYBE ONE WHO HURT HER LAST TIME MAYBE

Answer 1

She has insecurity problems and thinks that control over men is going to fix them for her.

Answer 2

She sounds darn shallow to me.

I just spent a year pulling a friend out of a 3 relationship with just such a woman. By the time we were done, I realised the woman was psychopathic and bipolar, refusing to take melds. Did I mention totally without conscience? She even pretended to be Muslim in hopes of snagging a rich man and moved to the middle east in pursuit of him. He was naive and the perfect target!

We found she was talking to 5 men at the same time, often sending them all the same posts with different names. Over time her mental and emotional stability deteriorated. She even used that as an excuse to hold on to him. My friend was so in lust he kept trying to "fix" things. Finally he has broken free of his addiction to her. It was very hard for him, but she was pushing for marriage and castigating him for not being able to afford an expensive ring. Worst of all, because he is an aspiring doctor, she used his basically giving and compassionate nature against him.

What really bugged him was she was "giving it away" to these other men but because he was very strong in his moral beliefs, she used just enough wiles to hook him then played him for all she could with the lure of what he could not have.There was not one line she did not use on him at some point.

Often these people, both sexes, act this way to gain their own ends. They look for the Achille's heel and play it without conscience. Such people are usually very charming and play the game well.

So, shallow is my first thing. And of course selfish. She does not care about the effects she has on other people, only in obtaining her ultimate goal of instant gratification. She does not look ahead but lives entirely in the moment. That is how opportunists operate. As a result, after awhile all the BS runs together and they can make mistakes. Most men call such women Sults. (LOL Pardon my spelling error). Women call such men too many bad words to repeat.

When my friend found out about this woman's lies and spoke to her, she justified everything hoping he would still go along with her. She never failed to play the maligned victim given the chance and never once took any responsibility for her actions. Instead she made HIM feel guilty for his thoughts and actions. Nasty piece of work. To accept blame means accepting responsibility and this these people rarely do. Masters of the blame game.

Best to run, not walk, in the opposite direction.

Answer 3

Sounds like she's an attention seeker..., evidently she wants to see how far she can go and how many "friends" she can manipulate. A combination of narcissism and insecurity really; she's insecure because she leans on these "friends" to feel better about herself and flirts so she can reassert herself she is still beautiful in the eyes of others. She will lie because she wants that web of manipulation so she can "have her cake and eat it too". Stay away, far away...

Answer 4

She obviously needs a lot of attention to make her feel good. My guess is that she derives her self worth based on how attractive she is to men. The more men who give her attention, the better she feels. If the men go away, she will feel bad about herself.

She is probably too wrapped up in herself to really be a good friend (or girlfriend for that matter) to anyone else.

Answer 5

She sounds like a very permisscuous girl, has a lot off issues and her only way of dealing with them is to seek the other sex's attention.But the only disadvantage that you would suffer from is that usually girl's who are permisscuous do not like to get to close relationship wise. So if you want a relationship with anyone i would advise you to look otherwise away from this girl.

Answer 6

Some such female might in fact be the type of girls who lack confidence in their own worth & insecure to be their own self to win friends. They resort to flirting to attract attention, to show that they are popular or desirable.

Answer 7

the trick against these women is not to play their game, she wants you to tag along so you will have been another one of her victories. What she is looking for in her subconscious is someone who she cannot tame to her ways. thus she will become infuriated that she cannot tame you and thus try harder.

and fall into your hand like an apple.

Answer 8

Sounds like she wants all the attention of the men, but finds it difficult to form steady relationships which she may be scared or unsure of, for one reason or another. Why not talk to her about it, especially if you are really keen on her.

Answer 9

It just simply means she is not committed to you. I believe you should dump her if she is like that and not look back. Been there and done this.

Answer 10

Dangerous grounds.Better escape if you can.Do not waste time characterizing her.Obviously vices are more than virtues.