i am a married woman and being very serious, does giving my husband a bl o w j o b show him i truly love him or is it just a b lo w job...think with the right head when answeing please, i am being serious.
2007-03-07 02:32:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're his wife, receiving it from you is never just a bj.
2007-03-07 03:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why YOU do it. Some women have given a lot of men bj's and it means nothing to them. If you are one of those women, I would say it doesn't mean you love him.
On the other hand, if you think that giving oral sex should only be reserved for the man you are truly in love (just like intercourse) then he will be able to tell.
You can't separate a blow j o b from any sexual activity you have with your husband. It should all be the same. It should all be done out of love. If you have to give your husband a bj to show you love him, something migh be wrong....What if you had sex with another man and your husband found out, but you say "But I didn't give him head".....Pretty silly huh.
2007-03-07 10:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love doesn't come in the form of a ********. But is sure does come close. lol. Seriously, giving a guy a ******** is very intimate. WHen you give your husband head it shows him that you truly care for him, deeply care for him. You are doing something that you don't like to do just for him. So, in a way it does show him that you love him.
2007-03-07 10:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do things for your husband because you love him. Those things could range from a good meal to a few well timed sexual acts. But in the give and take world of marriage the street rolls both ways. Do you think it shows how much your husband "loves" you when he goes down on you? It may or it may not sex acts can and should be selfish at times.
2007-03-07 10:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does giving your husband a BJ show him you love him?
Well...yes, but it's not like that's the only "proof" or "test" of your love. I'm sure you love him in a hundred other ways as well.
If you were to have sex with a man outside your marriage relationship, then THAT might be considered "just a BJ."
Why? Is your husband pressuring you for oral sex and you have some personal issues with oral?
2007-03-07 11:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oopppsss.... can't help to invade one's privacy.
If you would let me to raise something for your problem, all i can say is that, BJ can't be consider the biggest factor of showing how you really love him, but when i would helps your sex life with him, it serves just an ingredents. Remember sex is just an appetite of your partnership. The best thing that you have to do to show how you love him is to know what makes him happy and this is giving him your faith and loyalty,( TLC or Tender, loving, care and etc )but if giving him BJ would be helpful for the both of you especially for him, Go for it. If it's against your will, talk with him.
2007-03-07 10:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Benoair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving him a hummer doesnt show him any kind of love at all. Not to say that the act isnt enjoyable, I wouldnt call it "just a b low job" either, I think it is a exual act that you both can enjoy.
2007-03-07 10:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a married woman too. Giving your husband a "BJ" is not a sign of showing him love. This is just another way to satisfy him sexually. If you are uncomfortable doing this, then don't do it. You should not have to feel pressured to do something that you don't want to do.
2007-03-07 10:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of Three 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO ! That is not love ! I'm sure alot of guys will say it is, because they want one.. But that isn't love. But at the same time.. If I was with a girl and she said she wouldn't do it.. or hated doing it.. I would look at it like she is selfish/immature. What you might want to do is.. Convey to him that, that is why you do it. BTW.. You know the difference between like and love right ? Spit or swallow.
2007-03-07 12:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This, you'd have to answer yourself. When you performed the act the first time, what did you intend to show then? What is more important, what was his reaction? But what is of utmost importance to you is how you feel. It is an act of love that shows him how you feel, if that's the answer you're looking for. The lucky dog!
2007-03-07 10:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anytime a couple is intimate it is an expression of loving each other. The acts performed really dont matter. But i do love getting them
2007-03-07 10:37:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋