the only thing is time. just like when people divorce. it took me 7 months to just want to live again. You have to stay away from him and focus on something else. or you can just lay there and cry and waste away. like i almost did. everyone has there healing time. find a hobby...a friend... talk about him, bash him, whatever you need to get it out...then LET go....move on...
2007-03-07 02:35:19
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answered by txO3blueeyes 4
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Girl, if he was so quick at finding someone new, then he's so over you and never really cared. Im sorry, but its the truth. Let him go. Give yourself some time. Dont jump into another relationship just yet. Be single for a while and learn to love yourself. Make sure you know what you're willing to tolerate and what you're not before you get into something new. Respect yourself, and buy doing this you will attract the right people! God bless!
2007-03-07 02:41:41
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answered by Java Chip 4
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You have a serious problem. It is very hard to get over someone you truly love. That happened to me. I was single for 3 months and met a nice guy. As soon as my ex scene that i had someone new then he wanted me back. Some things are not meant to be. I have been separated with him for 8 years and he still wants me back. I'm still with the nice guy and have a child. I know it hurts but it is his lose not your. he sounds like a real jerk. his new gf will find out and he will get his back mine did.
2007-03-07 02:40:13
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answered by christina m 1
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It is obviously over between the two of you. Just move on and find someone else. There are so many other fish out there in the sea....And if that doesn't work out, try being single for a bit.
2007-03-07 02:34:43
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answered by Sunshine 3
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Be very gentle with yourself through this grieving time. Your very articulate and could have a career in writing or journalism!
1st of all, Girls attach emotionally to our men. Your job to yourself is to wait, watch and see if this guy is worthy of your attachment. It takes some patience and practice but soon you will find the man in which you can safely attach to and he will only make you feel safer.
2nd You may not be missing him ... your missing the man who you want, need and deserves to love you with respect, honor and adoration. Keep looking sweetie ... you sound really neat. But love takes time. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-07 02:36:45
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answered by Summer 2
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Well...i kno wat ur going through..i kinda was in the same situation..but you have to act like u dont care and even though u want to cry, wait till u get home or something where no one sees you..because when a guy sees u crying and sad he knows he can still have u no matter what..and i bet you that if he was to come back u would take him back in a heart-beat..but thats not right...show him u dont care, walk around like ur the "shyt" and watch hes gonna see u dont care and hes gonna want u back in time..gurl they ALWAYS COME BACK!!! trust me...=) i been there...and they always do..and me being stupid i took em back after all the shyt he did to me..and hunny its not worth it..ur gonna find someone so much better than him..just like i did..and ur gonna b happy and regret all those times u were sad..u only live once..live it to the fullest and do watever u wanna do!!!!!!! In time u will get over it, till this day im still not over it, and we broke up plenty of times and got back together! but they never learn there lesson if u keep taking them back!!! feeL me?! ur gonna learn to 4give and 4get in time..and u will be fine..i promise!!!
2007-03-07 02:38:24
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answered by JB. 2
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if you know there is no feeling for you from him then you should try hard to get over him and start dating someone else
2007-03-07 02:35:23
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answered by Nocurfew313 3
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MOVE ONNN! Come on He obviously dosen't like you or you would be his girlfriend!
2007-03-07 02:35:04
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answered by Anonymous
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move on to someone else that will love you.
2007-03-07 02:37:52
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answered by Symbolic User 7
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You should move on obviously he already did....
2007-03-07 02:33:02
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answered by Alejandra2008 3
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