iv been talkin to a guy for ages, but he wants to meet, he is comein down to my town, an wants to go out an have a meal,, he has give me his address an his house number, iv spoke to his mum an dad. but do you think it would be safe to meet up?
2007-03-07 02:27:15 · 16 answers · asked by miss shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
baby girl, nothing is safe. you want to meet him, take a friend with you; meet in public place. let someone knows where you'll be. and make sure that you check in via phone.
2007-03-07 02:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to meet up with this guy i would take a friend along with you, make sure it's during the day rather than evening and at a place YOU know well. The net is a wonderful tool that has made the world alot smaller, but beware there are alot of people out there that take advantage and they're not always who they say they are. Be safe and don't put yourself in any vulnerable positions.... :o) good luck x
2007-03-07 02:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Curls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take all precautions, you have been talking a long time, but that doesn't mean that everything you have been told is the truth. Meet in a public place, don't let him know where you live, take it slow. I met my fiancee on line, and we have lived together for 3 years, but yes there were untruths told. I also don't know how old both of you are, I would say if you are 15-18 don't meet him, at that age most people haven't had enough life experience to know if someone is lying to you face. You could end up putting yourself in danger. I agree with the taking someone else with you, and tell family and friends where your going and what time you will be back, don't take foolish risks.
2007-03-07 02:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by chefck26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never encourage people to meet other people from the internet. i dont think it is safe as there are many predators out there. on the other hand i met my current boyfriend on the internet (not on chat site) and we're more in love than anyone. me and my boyfriend knew each other for 9 months talking via email, msn, sms and phoning. he lived in Queelsnad and i lived in Tasmania (2 different states in Australia)... after 9 months we met face to face - even though before i met him we knew we were in love, i always was cautious.. i told my parents about our relationship from teh start and even my friends. i made sure our first meeting was in a public place (city train station) and even though i was nervous it was the best day of both our lives =) we're still together now and im moving to queensland in 5 days!!
but you have only stated you haev been talking to a guy for ages, not that you have a relationship or anything so i would be slightly hesitant.. its up to you and how comfortable you feel about it, if you are ever doubtful just dont do it =)
good luck!!
2007-03-08 09:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet in public and get your parents to ring you during the meal. There are good and bad people on the net hopefully you have met a good one. I met my wife on the net last year so I know there are good people on it and things can work out. Take care and good luck.
2007-03-07 02:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay here goes, imet a girl i get on with well and i met her in person but b4 i did we decided we would talk on the phone and stuff and she sent me her picture, i sent her mine and so whwn we felt comfortable enoiugh, we met up and it was fun. it was areally good day out but coz i was on a university trip, tutors were worried so i had 2 of my mates with me but then they knew i was ok so they went off and me and teh girl i met went our own way and had fun. but hey, my situation was different. i trusted her totally b4 we met but keep ur gaurd, tell sum1 wherre ur going anjd who with. u must go and meet with sum1 coz it could be scary so yup, take a mate or 2 with u. and meet in crowded place and dont go anywhere like his home or flat or anywhere ppl cant see u. just be safe and meet in a busy place, somewhere like shopping mall or something and end it atr shoopping place. next time u meet, u can have fun else where if u still trust him enough and ur comfortable. be safe and say where ur going just in case and wait HOW OLD ARE U? u better not be age 18 below.
2007-03-07 04:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst you can never be certain I think its much more an acceptable form of meeting a person nowadays.
If you do meet him be sure you have a mobile with you - let someone know who you're going to meet - where you're going and ask them to check in on you a few times throughout the night.
Meet him somewhere public and dont go anywhere quiet with him.
Im sure he's fine really just dont take any chances!
Best of luck!
xx
2007-03-07 03:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how old you are - when meeting someone like this, PLEASE take someone with you. Let this person know you're bringing someone with you and that they can do the same. If they dont understand your precaution, then there's something fishy about it. Better safe than sorry! Please be carefull and always think of all the possibilities. Sometimes people act like they're "normal", but they're not. Please, please...be careful! Good luck! :)
2007-03-07 02:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet in public bar, book a taxi home.
or meet up with friends first,
meet during the day
2007-03-07 02:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by dsclimb1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? He might be a creep. If you are going to meet him, do it in a public place and don't go anywhere else with him. Don't get in his car.
2007-03-07 02:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋